the1calledweeble Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Okay well my wife and i have been married for about 1 year now with a daughter and while were dating she has told me that she likes to flirt when she is drunk. she also wants to get these different things done to her to make her more attractive (when i think she attractive the way she is). she says its cause she sees me checking girls out and it would make me feel the way she feels if guys check her out. and now she also wants to start going out to bars with some friends when she thinks that kissing other guys is not considered cheating. i just feel un-easy about the whole surgery and going out to bars when she has told me the kind of things she does. what should i just let her go out? should i let her get the surgery? she tells me that she hasnt kissed another guy since we were togheter but i know its a lie cause she kissed her x before he left for the army. may have been friendly but it makes me feel un-easy knowing. and i have not let her really go out since then.
whichwayisup Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 There's something else going on inside her - Insecurities maybe, how she looks now compared to before she had the baby. Maybe she's scared of being a mom, settling into a routine? Kissing other people while married IS cheating! You two need to connect, have intimacy together. How are things at home between you two? In and out of the bedroom.
Author the1calledweeble Posted February 10, 2007 Author Posted February 10, 2007 its her second child 1st one with me. were fine at home but seems im more interested in sex than she is.
Sup Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 It's a possibility that she's doing more than kissing, if ya know what I mean. If she's lying to you now, what is/would she be doing in a few years? And that's stretching it too. You two should be going to Marriage Counseling, and FAST!
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