Topper Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 Was that you? Dang, I just had my hands full of groceries and my coupons were so disorganized! I Just couldn't think of what to say! When you turned away, I thought well her glasses cleared from being in refrigerated food section. She got a real look at me. sigh another missed opportunity I hope you didn't eat that whole 1/2 gallon of rocky Road ice cream by your self last night.
Pretty Fly Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 I agree with Paris, I don't want a guy anyway who is so wimpy he can't at least come over and say 'hi' after I am making eye contact. A confident man, which is who I would want to date anyway, is not going to have a problem approaching me if 1. I am not there with a guy and 2. he finds me attractive. What's the worst that can happen? I tellhim i have a boyfriend or thanks, that is sweet, but no thanks. Big deal, if he can't handle a chance of rejection, he is a wimp and I don't want him anyway because he would end up being a nightmare in a relationship. I would say I am a confident guy in every aspect of my life except for when it comes to approach a girl I find very attractive. Then I have butterflies in my stomach and my heart starts pounding. Recently, on about 3 or 4 occasions, girls I know who are married or long-term attached have asked me, in a confused kind of way, as if I am a catch, " hey, how come you don't have a girlfriend?" Am I too wimpy for you? Thing is, it's not just a one-off rejection like you talk about it, as a guy having to make the first move all the time, you have to handle A LOT of rejection. And yes, sometimes it gets you down and affects your confidence. Is that difficult to understand?
luvtoto Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 sigh another missed opportunity. Don't you hate that feeling? I know I do. If I would just get out of my damn way...I would probably find Mr. Right. But, like I said before. Too damn shy.
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