Armor Wolf Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 My gf and I have been dating for about 3 months now. We are going on 4 on the 20th, recently I been trying to adjust to this new relationship because I just got off a 4yr old relationship and she just got off a 2 yr relationship. My problem is that we both work and she goes to college in the morning and at times I start to miss her. Usually when I key her up she doesn't seem to be into the convo and usually goes " yeah" "ok" and goes off by saying " I gotta go". Other times she is so happy to hear from me and wants me to come see her and etc. Today she did this to me and I was upset and I called her and told her how I felt. I told her to just tell me politely next time she doesn't wanna talk, instead of giving me negative feeling. I guess this got her mad because she went off saying I key her up too early (12:35 PM!?!) and that she be tired because she stands all day at her job and deals with rude customers. I really just wish I didn't tell her anything but its too late now, what should I do now? wait until she calls me to say sorry? or must I do it? and I don't really know who is wrong here.
mixwell Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 My gf and I have been dating for about 3 months now. We are going on 4 on the 20th, recently I been trying to adjust to this new relationship because I just got off a 4yr old relationship and she just got off a 2 yr relationship. My problem is that we both work and she goes to college in the morning and at times I start to miss her. Usually when I key her up she doesn't seem to be into the convo and usually goes " yeah" "ok" and goes off by saying " I gotta go". Other times she is so happy to hear from me and wants me to come see her and etc. Today she did this to me and I was upset and I called her and told her how I felt. I told her to just tell me politely next time she doesn't wanna talk, instead of giving me negative feeling. I guess this got her mad because she went off saying I key her up too early (12:35 PM!?!) and that she be tired because she stands all day at her job and deals with rude customers. I really just wish I didn't tell her anything but its too late now, what should I do now? wait until she calls me to say sorry? or must I do it? and I don't really know who is wrong here. Why don't you try LISTENING to what she says... She is tired from work and school and you keying her "early" by her terms annoys her.. Just relax and get off her jock a little bit.. Let her do some of the contacting.. Don't act soo desperate and too much of a pu$$y because eventually she will get annoyed and bored with it and dump you.. Just relax and let her do some contacting.. Sorry not trying to sound like a dlck but its the truth.
Island Girl Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Wait for her to contact you to apologize -- she is the one that lost her cool and you MUST do this or she'll lose respect for you. It will also set the tone for communication about problems in the future. I agree with SOME of what the other poster says about contacting her too much. You got this reaction...I'm sure she'll call to apologize or talk to you about it. But after she does, I'd make sure you scale back the attention that you give her. You're giving too much and could be in danger of driving her away. Let her miss you and reach out to YOU a lot more.
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