Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Hey everyone I currently am dealing with a..tough situation. I can get a lot of chicks, but there's this ONE CHICK I just have to get. She's like amazingly pretty in a different way, and her friend isn't bad either. Like I have to question how much attention from guys she should be getting over how much she actually gets, but hey better odds for me! AND, I'm pretty sure both have checked me out at least a couple times. Anyways, one of my good friends I respect has seen her and likes her, a lot. He doesn't know I know he likes her, but I do. He hasn't gotten the nerve to approach her yet, and I wanna at least try hitting on her before V-Day. So what do I do? I know if I try I can take her, but I'm not willing to sacrifice a friendship for her. Maybe wait for him to f up and then go for the kill? Although I'm not sure how well that'd go with him either, knowing he f'ed up and then I swooped in. I'm just very confused. Hell maybe I'll just game her friend then try and get both I dont know..I know not really responsible lol
Lauriebell82 Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 sorry but as a woman, everything u just said would be a total turnoff. u sound cocky..stop it. total turnoff to girls. as for all these girls who u want to hook up with..dont move in on the girl that ur friend likes. thats real crappy. sounds like u just wanna play all these girls and dont really care about them. sounds like u just want the thrill of getting them. thats also crappy. my advice as a girl..forget about "getting chicks" and maybe try to find a girl that u sincerely like and just want to get to know. sincerity is the best way to go, cocky and arrogant guys are the worst, and u totally sounded like one in everything u said. but hey if u just want to play girls thats ok..guess thats ur choice. dont go for the girl ur friend likes though, not worth sacrificing a friendship. dont try to go after her even if she doesnt like him...and its kind of mean that ur so sure he'll f up. u dont know that. (even if he did, he'd probably be pissed if u swooped in after he got rejected). sorry i'm being kind of harsh but u sounded so cocky that i would be totally turned off in u tried to hit on me. but anyway if u just have to "get with someone" then go for the friend, because she has no involvement with anything else. dont play her though, cause that sounds like its all u want to do.
Author Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 10, 2007 Author Posted February 10, 2007 Nah I know that wasn't harsh..you don't actually know me how could you say anything less? I'm actually really cocky on the inside, I just don't show it and that's what breeds success, my dear. It's also got something to do with most girls I find attractive give me a bunch of signs before I even talk to them. Also, I know I'm getting the girl I want and that's what I get. This situation simply stumped me. Just sayin..if u don't got the balls to approach a girl ur generally gonna f up when you get the courage to finally walk up to them. Sorry it's harsh reality. I'll see what happens..maybe I'll just talk to her and get her to notice my buddy we'll see
Pink Amulet Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Is this a joke? Yuck. You have a lot to learn my friend.
Author Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 10, 2007 Author Posted February 10, 2007 Is this a joke? Ehh..na? Yuck. Welcome to a man's world. You have a lot to learn my friend. Ehh..*coughno****cough*yea?
Pink Amulet Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 You must be kidding if you think this a reflection of a "mans" psyche. This is but a boys.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Hi this is Lauriebell82's BF, You probably shouldn't go after a girl that your friend is interested in. Let him have first crack at her if he called dibs first. Otherwise, you are risking a friendship. Also, you need to stick by this rule, otherwise you will develop a bad habit of going after your friend's girls, and then you'd really be an a**. On the other hand, if your friend likes her but doesn't ever try to make a move, then talk to him about it. If he gives his consent, then go for her.
glitzy55 Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 get? What are we women like a sandwich or something?
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