Author glitzy55 Posted February 10, 2007 Author Posted February 10, 2007 Topper, I see what you're saying about fitting 75% of the things or perhaps having an interest in common. Having said that, though, let me say this. There are some things that are just non-negotiable. For me, it's age and smoking habits. If you're 40, forget it. If you smoke, forget it. If you have kids already, forget it. And that's just the way it is. It doesn't matter if he likes camping and so do I, or if his favorite movie is Animal House too. There are some must-haves and must-have-nots, and they are just deal breakers, plain and simple. why even bother responding to him..it'll just go on and on and on some more.
Flyin in Clouds Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 ... Worst part of it was that when I politely thanked them but advised that I would not be anyone's Mrs. Robinson, they didn't even understand the reference! Oh, come on. If they don't know who she is then that confirms their age right there. It isn't a movie most kids have seen. But you know what. It might just be fun for you to be someone's Mrs. Robinson... Don't knock it if you haven't tried it... What I don't get is all the young female teachers, who generally are pretty hot, going after younger guys. Talk about your Mrs. Robinsons. Where teachers like that when I was in high school... damn missed out agian.
Flyin in Clouds Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 ... Did you post some sexy provocative Photos? Maybe some little hints in your words that you are sensual, open minded? I like to have fun? Oh, come on Topper. You know that out of the million guys that saw her ad, there are 999,990 that are just hound dogs looking to get laid and will hit on anything that wiggles. And when a woman says she's looking for "fun" and a guy says he's looking for "fun" they aren't necessarily talking about the same kind of fun. How dare those men email me! can't they see i am so much better then they are? You complain that some guys took the time to write and risk rejection. Yes even over the net rejection can hurt. Oh, come on.... these guys are like email junk mail. Rejection means nothing except they didn't score. And her gripe is they don't pay attention to her "qualifications" such as age. And yeah, a lot of the guys are going to ingore that because they hope maybe you'll find them interesting enough to bend your rules some and accept talking to them via annonymous email to see if there is any mutual interest in going further. Men can be arrogant and think their other desirable traits would be enough to wave the age limitations set by you in your profile. Men can be arrogant?... lol... I won't say what women can be Pink. And so let's ask this. If the guy was a billionare would you wave your age limit? For me, it's age and smoking habits. If you're 40, forget it. If you smoke, forget it This same thing goes for guys. If you're not a hot blue eyed blond, forget it. If you weigh more than 110 pounds and aren't at least 5'10' forget it. What was that Randy Newman song about short people? OK, we all have our desires and "limits". Suppose there was a really great guy but he was 41 (or 39, I assume you want someone younger than 40, but maybe you want someone older than 40). He is just one year beyond your cut off. Maybe only six months beyond. Maybe just a month. Should he try or just forget it? Maybe you'd really like this guy even if he is a little too old.
Green Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 What year is this 2007? There's still a stigma attached to meeting someone via the internet. I know tons of people that have met someone online from ims, message boards, etc. And I can easily find somone who just wants to get laid in a club, bar, walking down the street or "public" like you call it..I mean men do like sex right? And the reason I'm on this is bc I have a really busy schedule and I figured I'd try out something new. But thanks for your opinion. some one in my family met there wife through the internet they have a really good relationship.
mixwell Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 I can say one thing mixwell don't do me any more favores by posting on this thread with guys like you are really screwing guys like me over. Haha okay by posting GUYS I should have inserted "some" before it. I know that there are guys out there that are legit and want a relationship but I cannot stand a cocky female that likes getting her ego off by bragging about rejecting men. I usually just rip on girls like that so I am not trying to be offensive to Glitz but she sounded very arrogant and like a b*tch to be honest. As Topper said men really have to go out on a limb where females have it easier.. Example: A guy in a club finally gets up the nerve to go up to a girl and talk to her not knowing if she thinks he is cute or wants to talk or even maybe dance. He has to face that chance of rejection. The female on this hand knows as he walks up to her if she will talk to him dance or even sleep with him maybe. It just really bugs me that woman know they have the control of where the talking will go or just the rejection and some seem to really get off on toying with it.. Hope this clarifies my azzhole responses haha. Peace
che_jesse Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 :lmao: That is so funny. I swear that life is dumbed-down these days. I dont understand it either, what does it mean? Maybe this is an age thing.
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