NeverLate Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL
puddleofmud Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I think that is a very good idea. I would respect that forum and not interfere... I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL
outofdarkness Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL oh...ok...and then they would most likely have to ban people from posting on any forum other then that which pertains to their current situation??? Oh, and you can also justify until the "cows come home". If that is what all on this forum want, then ok...I was under the impression that at least some of you really got something out of the some of the posts by the BW's...You don't want us to personally insult you, yet you say that our stuff is "crap"???
tinktronik Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 And YET again . This argument . Really , how many times a day do we need the same thread about BS having it out for the OW . It exacerbates the whole thing and pulls the BS over for more arguing . Are you all that bored?
YoMomma Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL Just for the record, I've never been a BS. Regretfully I have been the OW - but woke up before I got run over by the bus! MM on the other hand... can't say he's doing as well as I am - me thinks he got kicked to the curb by his W! :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:
BenThereDunThat Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 No kidding. This is just getting retarded. Say it with me: PUBLIC FORUM You want your own forum, start your own, and make it invitation only. Don't expect LS powers-that-be to create spots for every single faction. Either learn to quit whining and ignore/report posters you find offensive or pool your resources and start your own place. These forums do cost money to run and maintain, you know. Not to mention that they're moderated by volunteers who really don't have time to come running every time you see something you don't like. Suck it up people!
TheDiva Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 No kidding. This is just getting retarded. Say it with me: PUBLIC FORUM You want your own forum, start your own, and make it invitation only. Don't expect LS powers-that-be to create spots for every single faction. Either learn to quit whining and ignore/report posters you find offensive or pool your resources and start your own place. These forums do cost money to run and maintain, you know. Not to mention that they're moderated by volunteers who really don't have time to come running every time you see something you don't like. Suck it up people! THANK YOU BTDT! You know that saying "sticks and stones" well you know..... Who knew words could hurt so much!
erika2610 Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 No kidding. This is just getting retarded. Say it with me: PUBLIC FORUM You want your own forum, start your own, and make it invitation only. Don't expect LS powers-that-be to create spots for every single faction. Either learn to quit whining and ignore/report posters you find offensive or pool your resources and start your own place. These forums do cost money to run and maintain, you know. Not to mention that they're moderated by volunteers who really don't have time to come running every time you see something you don't like. Suck it up people! Well said. I knew I liked you for a reason.. you tell it like it is. But what fun is there in ignoring a problem poster, when you can just whine about them and create drama. Oh, and start threads everyday on how horrible BS are.
Curmudgeon Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL many of the questions asked by the OWs of the BSs or best answered by BSs likely wouldn't get answered or appropriately responded to at all, and visa versa. I don't see a stark realization and occasional reminders that you're not living in a vacuum and that what you do does affect others as a bad thing so long as it can be presented tastefully and without either anger, recrimination or belittling such as denigrating everything that's said by classifying it as "spewing crap." Do you?
norajane Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. Err, they're likely to tell you LS has an Infidelity forum where BS's can post about their specific situations if they choose to. Why are you wasting the mods' time? And why post a thread about it if not to stir up more of that crap you supposedly despise?
whichwayisup Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Why is this again becoming an issue? Everybody has to move on and forget all that happened in the past few weeks. Things have been more or less smooth sailing until afew people ruined it recently. Move past it, ignore the posts that upset/bug ya. THere IS an ignore feature too, so if there's a particular posts that pisses someone off, put them on IGNORE. Poof! No seeing what they say. And, C is right, its' a public forum - You're gonna get good and bad advice, some of it harsh, some of it rude...Just like real life. Oh, it's not just OW's and BS's who reply to posts here, there are thousands of other members not cheating, nor been cheated on that give advice freely as well - And some of those replies can be harsh too....
PoshPrincess Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 And, C is right, its' a public forum - You're gonna get good and bad advice, some of it harsh, some of it rude...Just like real life. Well said WWIU, I totally agree. I don't always agree with comments that BSs make, although neither do I agree with everythings the OW/OM say either but I DO think everyone has a right to their opinion. If you people don't want to hear what others have to say then don't post! As you say, that's life. I am happy to hear any advice but I guess some people only want to hear what they want to hear, if you know what I mean! Sometimes I think 'harsh reality' is what us OW need. Yes, we DO know deep down the hurt and pain we are causing but bury our heads in the sand and sometimes need a stark reminder. Sometimes we believe what our MM say to us and sometimes we know deep down that it's a load of bull***t, but we believe what we want to believe. I think it does us good to hear the other side of the story, the same as it's good for the BS to hear what their H/W have been saying to us. I think we can all help each other!
Fly My Pretties Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 I think some people need to put on their big girls panties and stop quivering their bottom lips whenever they get challenged over the choices they made. Trust me, you'd get called far worse in real life. If you believe you are truly justified then you have no reason to feel threatened do you? Simply ignore those you don't agree with.
lovernotafighter Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 I have contacted the management of this site and requested that they start a new forum called the Betrayed Spouse. That way you can spew your crap to each other until the cows come home. NL can you turn on your pm's yet? check it out and get back to me. ~LNF
lovernotafighter Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 I think some people need to put on their big girls panties and stop quivering their bottom lips whenever they get challenged over the choices they made. Trust me, you'd get called far worse in real life. If you believe you are truly justified then you have no reason to feel threatened do you? Simply ignore those you don't agree with. reguardless of what people could be called, this forum isn't for insults of one kind or another. it's 4 support which no one around here is getting any more..thats the point.
outofdarkness Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 reguardless of what people could be called, this forum isn't for insults of one kind or another. it's 4 support which no one around here is getting any more..thats the point. Don't u think that SOME of the peeps on this forum are getting support? I know I am...
Salicious Crumb Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Just for the record, I've never been a BS. Regretfully I have been the OW - but woke up before I got run over by the bus! MM on the other hand... can't say he's doing as well as I am - me thinks he got kicked to the curb by his W! :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick: You did the right thing...and I commend you for that. Kudos for seeing the situation for what it was.
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