Guest Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 My boyfriend and I have been together for some time,we actually live together.I love him to bits but when it comes to the bedroom scene he really is boring. I find it hard to believe as he has had a lot of women in his life,I guess they never taught him too much LOL.Anyhow,it's either him on top or me,that's pretty much it.There is no oral only unless I give him some and I honestly don't think he is into it. How can you teach an old dog new tricks?I have suggested toys and other things but he really is not interested What do I do?
Krytellan Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 To be honest, you tell him he needs to do it because you like it. If that's not enough for him, then that should tell you a lot right there. From the way you talk, you already have ideas for him... you just need to get that across to him. Something as simple as getting off of him when you're on top and saying, "Will you get behind me?" He probably knows he is just being lazy and self-centered. Now's a good time to know if he's willing to do things to please you or not.
Jeffrey Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Communicate, communicate and communicate some more. Discuss yours and his fantasies, discuss your desires, be very candid and explore yourselves. Even in very long-term relationships people change as to their tastes and desires, good communication and a willingness to discuss sex openly and honestly is one of the best things I'd recommend.
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