most Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Ok, so I think I'm finally setting all this free...he lost me, because he wanted to find a bunch of strange love out there. Ok, dude...have at it. But this is one thing thats bugging me. He took pictures of my kids and us at a school function, won't give me the film to develope. Instead, he told me he would get 2 sets of prints..1 for me, and keep the other set for himself. Why would he want these? And he's very slow at getting this task accomplished. (pics were taken mid Dec) as of yet he has not taken the film in. Why this hold up? Why keep pics for himself. I'd rather he just send me the film...he doesn't need pics of my children. what do ya think?
Author most Posted February 11, 2007 Author Posted February 11, 2007 No...he is not. He wanted us to get married and made all sorts of empty promises...then turned chicken and ran. I think these pictures is his way of keeping me on a string....keeps us attached. But, I know that I'm better off without him now and I'm ready to be thankfully not attached to him....now I just want those pics, and I don't understand why he holds onto them. Doing nothing, and why does he want them...just let me have the film.
Adrenaline Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 He probably just wants to hang on to the pictures because he does not want to forget about you. Like I hang on to pictures of my past relationships to look back in time and remember how life used to be then and what I learned from it. I don't find it natural to completely erase someone from your life even if they did hurt you. Time is precious and removing such a large part of my memory would put me in a state of regret. But I know if it was not for those bitter times, I would not be a better person as I am today. And as for not getting them developed it could be simply laziness; the last on his priority. Having you develop the film puts him in the risk of not getting a copy of the photos for himself. That or he lost the film. But I don't know the guy or his intentions with the film. What I told you are my intentions with the film if I was in his place.
Author most Posted February 28, 2007 Author Posted February 28, 2007 on valentines day he sent me an im saying he has the pictures back and would get them in the mail...guess what? i'm still waiting. i refuse to call and ask about them, and took him off buddylist..so no more im's from him. is he just lazy or is this a way of keeping me on a string? well, whatever it is...i will n/c still. what a mofo he has turned out to be. geez.
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