If you don't like the "sharks" then why do you keep on feeding them?

[tinktronik]

Well Tink, not that I am incouraging any aruning at all, but people need to be able to write how they feel and sometimes you get support from unexpected places, and you see what someone is really thinking and feeling.

 

Some may try to start an argument but then you just read thier post and don't reply if that is what you choose to do, out of the replies that I got here if anything it gets everyone thinking and there is nothing wrong with that.

I absolutly agree, P . However we are all aware that there are some on both sides of the fence that turn these threads into an argument . I don't know why , they just do . I am all for good convo, working at a situation , but this topic just seems to get the blood boiling for some . And as it has been done to death , the most probable outcome is just that it will turn into another argument that posts another topic concerning the same issue , and so on and so forth . My suggestion is that we let the issue cool off for a while . But thats just my O.

[pricillia]

I absolutly agree, P . However we are all aware that there are some on both sides of the fence that turn these threads into an argument . I don't know why , they just do . I am all for good convo, working at a situation , but this topic just seems to get the blood boiling for some . And as it has been done to death , the most probable outcome is just that it will turn into another argument that posts another topic concerning the same issue , and so on and so forth . My suggestion is that we let the issue cool off for a while . But thats just my O.

 

 

I don't see this thread turning into an argument at all, I have tried to address both sides, I think people have been open an honest in thier replies without the argunments... I am just saying to the OW, try not to be so weak, and take back some of your dignity, even if they are still with MM, don't just accept everything, think of yourself as well, and the big picture too whatever that may be.

[pricillia]

and... most threads in this forum end up in a argument, but sometimes a difference of opinion can also be taken as an argument... that is not my intention at all...

[GreenEyedLady]

If someone has no intention of stopping...then exactly what support are they deserving of?

 

Maybe you should read what is found at the top of the page: THE OTHER MAN/WOMAN FORUM: THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY: SUPPORT AND DISCUSSION FOR THOSE WHO FIND THEMSELVES INVOLVED WITH A COMMITTED PARTNER.

 

And who are you to decide what someone is or isn't deserving of?