Valley Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 About a month ago I met a super hot sexy guy (let's call him PG), who told me that he didn't have a girlfriend. This guy is friends with some good friends of mine. We ended up having the steamy one-night-stand. The next morning, as I was leaving his house, he asked for my number and told me that he'd like to do this again, like a late night booty call. I said sure...after all...I had a great time with him. The following weekend I'm out with some of those same friends and we run into him at a Bar, where he was accompanied by a very beautiful woman. A bit uncomfortable, but I was fine with it. To make a long story short...she and I end up hitting it off, as if we've known each other for years. At one point, as we were outside smoking a cig, he comes out and she asked me if I met her boyfriend before and goes to introduce us...I paused with hesitation and said..."oh..we met last week." She then asked me IN FRONT OF HIM...if he flirted with me. I said..."No, not at all." Two weeks after this incident, I go to a party, where they both are again. She literally jumps out of her seat to greet me and says..."I AM SO GLAD YOU ARE HERE!" From that point on we were completely inseparable. I mean it was obvious that we got along great. We laugh the same, we make the same joke and find the same things humorous. I mean there are just so many things that we have in common...it's strange and I've never met anyone, that I could say resembles me almost to the tee. To make another long story short, after having several cocktails, we all decide to go bar hopping. Somehow I got split up from my other friends and end up with just her and PG. Just us three! We go to a few bars and end up at one of their friends house. He and I coincidently end up outside together...alone. He then tells me that he really wants to call me and starts grabbing me, in an extremely flirtatious manner and I went with it. I confronted him about lying to me about having a g-friend and he still insisted that they are NOT "bf/gf." We all leave and I end up spending the night at his house, but on the couch, and her in his bed. AWKWARD!!!! Yesterday I received a call from her...saying that she's so glad that we hung out and glad that we exchanged numbers blah blah, but for me to give her call because she wants to ask me about something. I don't know what she could possibly want to ask me and I am stressing to the core. Perhaps I'm being paranoid...but what the hell should I say if she finds out? I left her a return voicemail and have yet to hear from her. I think this guy is hot and I still want him (even just for the booty). If he's saying that they aren't exclusive and she mentioned to me that they are "kind sort of bf/gf". What should I do? They were in a past relationship together for 3 years and broke up last year and are basically trying to hook up again. Thoughts?
TheDiva Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 If you want to have this "hot guy" to yourself, it is imperative to back off. If you hook up with him while he is somewhat attached then you have just told him you are okay sharing him. If you really hit it off with her than that is double the reason to back off. From reading your post it sounds like he flirts, gropes, romances you while she isn't present, therefore he is probably attached to her in some kind of bf/gf situation. Listen carefully and people will tell you who they are and what they stand for. I think he is just a good time man...if that's what you are after; go for it. But ask the other girl first what kind of standing they have. If I were you though, I would walk away and find a single boy toy.
norajane Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 So, you're already sneaking around behind her back, and lying to her face. This is the kind of person you want to be? Why? I hope you used condoms because if he f*cked around with you like that, there's probably a boatload of other women he's been sleeping with. Look, this situation is guaranteed to make somebody miserable, most likely you. Why put yourself through that? Sex isn't worth losing your self-respect.
whichwayisup Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 I think this guy is hot and I still want him (even just for the booty). If he's saying that they aren't exclusive and she mentioned to me that they are "kind sort of bf/gf". What should I do? They were in a past relationship together for 3 years and broke up last year and are basically trying to hook up again. You cannot be this woman's friend if you plan on screwing HER boyfriend. He's a jerk, he's proven that and has NO respect for her or their relationship. You don't have a right to go after him, even MORE so now seeing as you know her abit. THINK with your head, not your heart or what's between the legs...
Guest Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 I think they want a threesome. I totally do think they do too!!! But then why, wouldn;t they have just asked me that night? I mean I was there ...sleeping on the couch!
bellababygirl Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 I think they want a threesome. thats what I was thinking...or at least expected to read towards the I spent the night at his place on the couch thing.. maybe, that is his motive???
bellababygirl Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 I totally do think they do too!!! But then why, wouldn;t they have just asked me that night? I mean I was there ...sleeping on the couch! Maybe she is working up the nerve!
Meredith63 Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Personally, I'd dump the guy and be friends with her if you and she really clicked. Men come and go, good friends are invaluable. JMHO
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