hunnybuns Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Valentines day is just around the corner. I know I will not be getting anything from my MM. But do you think it is all right to send him a card through email. Nothing lovey dovy or anything just something to say that I acknowledged him and the day!!! I dont want anyone to tell me a bunch of rude comments I want honest answers!!!!
TheDiva Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Short answer NO. He gives nothing, you get him nothing.
YoMomma Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Valentines day is just around the corner. I know I will not be getting anything from my MM. But do you think it is all right to send him a card through email. Nothing lovey dovy or anything just something to say that I acknowledged him and the day!!! I dont want anyone to tell me a bunch of rude comments I want honest answers!!!! To be honest I'd love to send my exMM a Valentines Day card via regular mail to his house - however I don't think his W would find it very lovey dovey. I AM JUST KIDDING - I know I sound like I hate the sleezeball - in truth I still think about him every dam day - and it sucks! For all I know she kicked his butt to the curb... I don't really know - and I have to keep telling myself I don't give a rats butt about him. But I still do... However, I am moving on with my life - even dating single men now Life is so much sweeter without the secrets... so while it may seem that I am just 'bashing' people - its only that I've walked in your shoes - all they cause is pain and blisters! :bunny: :bunny:
Author hunnybuns Posted February 7, 2007 Author Posted February 7, 2007 Well I say I am going to get nothing. I am really just assuming. How is that going to work. He can't send me flowers. People will know something is up. I dont know. That is not fair.......I can't just send him a card? Come on why not????
Author hunnybuns Posted February 7, 2007 Author Posted February 7, 2007 Trust my I have thought about sending one to his work. But I dont know how he will react. I dont know if he will get mad at me or what???? What do you do???
Kathleen Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 It's a great idea to send an e-card. Why not send it? And it doesn't matter if he sends you something. It's not about if he gets you something you'll then get him something & vice versa.
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Trust my I have thought about sending one to his work. But I dont know how he will react. I dont know if he will get mad at me or what???? What do you do??? I think that says it all. If I thought I may put my MM in a difficult position I would not send anything. I waited for him to dictate the way last year, luckily I got a card and nice present. We gave them in person and we'll be doing that this year too.
ratingsguy Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Ultimately it's your call. But if I was in your shoes, and I knew there was a chance I was getting nothing, I wouldn't feel very excited about getting him anything. I would also question why I was involved with this person in the first place. Hope that didn't come off as harsh, but that's what I'd do.
Jinxx Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 If you know for certain you are not going receive anything then I don't think I'd bother. An ecard wouldn't hurt but I wouldn't do anything else. I just isn't worth it. Do something fun for yourself that day.
Crash Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 hunnybuns, I know I won't be getting even an acknowledgement of it either so he's not getting a card or anything from me. I already do too much for him - he's already getting enough ego strokes from me. I'm dreading the whole day. I've thought about disappearing for the day with no explanation but I think I will be too busy at work to do that. I'm dreading feeling like crud that day though.
frannie Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Valentines day is just around the corner. I know I will not be getting anything from my MM. But do you think it is all right to send him a card through email. Nothing lovey dovy or anything just something to say that I acknowledged him and the day!!! I dont want anyone to tell me a bunch of rude comments I want honest answers!!!! Why would you want to do that..? In my experience married men don't get a lot of V cards sent to their house!! However un lovey-dovey they are, it will just cause a LOT of hassle and embarrassment and trouble. If you want to show him you love him I could think of a lot better way than that! So, NO. Unless your intentions are un-Valentine like, of course
Author hunnybuns Posted February 8, 2007 Author Posted February 8, 2007 I dont know. I dont think it will hurt but maybe yall are right. I dont really know if he is going to give me anything. I just sincerely doubt it!! We live within an hour of each other and I dont think it's possible for us to get together because he will be with the W I am sure and my H will probably want to be with me....WHO KNOWS!!!
noforgiveness Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Why would you expect to get nothing and why would you allow yourself to be treated that way? Obviously you can't give him somethingthat his wife may see but why can't he get you something?
Author hunnybuns Posted February 8, 2007 Author Posted February 8, 2007 we just started this little escapade about 5 months ago. I have never had to deal with valentines day before I dont know what to expect.
bellababygirl Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 My MM called this morning to tell me he is going to do something so special or me on Valentines Day, that I need a big surprise...well, my guy has everything money could buy so normally I do small things for him he enjoys...I buy cards, burn him CDs of the music (mostly jazz, R&B, and easy listening) that we enjoy together, and then of course the sensual gifts...massages, showers, dress up in outfits he likes (which is becoming increasing difficult since my pregnant belly is getting larger), but I find it is things that are of a loving intimate nature, something that makes him think of me he enjoys most. I.E. the scent of my perfume...the way I always wear his shirts...little things like that... All I know is I better get at 3 to 4 hours of sex this Valentines day...he's been gone working, tomorrow makes it two weeks since I've had sex...so, he knows what I want for Valentines Day although I know his big surprise is something in addition to great sex. I told him it is dangerous to deprive a pregnant woman of orgasim, especially for more than a week! Sorry, not trying to be crude just seriously frustrated!
YoMomma Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 My MM called this morning to tell me he is going to do something so special or me on Valentines Day, that I need a big surprise...well, my guy has everything money could buy so normally I do small things for him he enjoys...I buy cards, burn him CDs of the music (mostly jazz, R&B, and easy listening) that we enjoy together, and then of course the sensual gifts...massages, showers, dress up in outfits he likes (which is becoming increasing difficult since my pregnant belly is getting larger), but I find it is things that are of a loving intimate nature, something that makes him think of me he enjoys most. I.E. the scent of my perfume...the way I always wear his shirts...little things like that... All I know is I better get at 3 to 4 hours of sex this Valentines day...he's been gone working, tomorrow makes it two weeks since I've had sex...so, he knows what I want for Valentines Day although I know his big surprise is something in addition to great sex. I told him it is dangerous to deprive a pregnant woman of orgasim, especially for more than a week! Sorry, not trying to be crude just seriously frustrated! I wonder what he's going to give his wife on VD! I am sure she wants a few hours of 'fun' too... can't imagine how the old geezer is going to keep up with the two of you! :rolleyes:
bellababygirl Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 I wonder what he's going to give his wife on VD! I am sure she wants a few hours of 'fun' too... can't imagine how the old geezer is going to keep up with the two of you! :rolleyes: That was not very nice! He is not an old geezer, and keeps up quite well. Actually, the best lover I have ever had...
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