Torn2Pieces Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 We had been in this relationship for 5 years, and living together for 4 years. We have a wonderful 3 year old daughter together. [COLOR=black]A week before Christmas I received a call while I was out of town from my then Fiancé letting me know that for the past 3 months he had been cheating. He lied about who it was with and later found out that it was with his boss. I was so upset and I told him he needed to move out and he did, into her house. I was devastated and my daughter was having a hard time with the split up. She started wetting the bed, nightmares, acting out at Pre School and started saying she needed to find a new daddy. With help of a school counselor we have helped a little with her adjustments to the new situation and as for me, I thought I was getting over him and actually ok with the break up then it hit me, I still loved him with all of my heart. I let him know what I was feeling and he told me that he was in love with the other woman and he would not give us another chance to save our family. His mom called and said he was having second thoughts about it and she asked if I would take him back if he asked and I said I did not know. I don't know what to do! I love him so much but he said it was over when I wanted to work things out. How do I move on when he still has my heart and do I take a chance and try and work this out for our family's sake? I am just scared to let him back in and break our daughter’s heart again if we can't work it out. [/COLOR]
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