perfectescape Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 To get story click on the link.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t109613/?highlight=perfectescape So my birthday was on the 25th of January and my ex texted paged me "happy Birthday"...Was quite surprised since she hasn't spoken to me since the end of September...Later in the evening on my birthday a text came in again stating "remember what I said...You deserve the best and don't settle for less" ...Not sure why I received this text since we haven't spoken in over 4 months...This was the third time she texted me over the last 5 weeks or so and each time it brought my recovery backward...A few days after my birthday and not hearing from her again, I decided to contact her via a text page...I said the following "I know you have good intentions on why you have been texting me, but please stop as it hurts me to hear from you and I know that you don't want to hurt me...Thanks for understanding"...Immediately after she sent me a text message that I was rude and that she just wanted to wish me a happy birthday...I then texted her "what is the point, as you have showed me that you wanted nothing to do with me"...So after 15 texts or so she called me and we spoke for hours about our past relationship...We decided to be friends going forward...As we spoke, she admitted to me what I already assumed, another man...She told me that it was over after a few months and it really hurt me when she came clean...After other conversations she asked me to work things out with her and I told her that it's best that we stay friends, since I don't 100% trust her...Well I saw her today for the first time since the end of September and I feel in love all over again...However, this time I need to use my head and find someone that will be there though the good and the bad...Just a few short weeks ago, I would of done anything to get her back and now that she is back I look at her in a different light...What a difference a few weeks make...So for those who wish for a second chance, it may not be what you think it will be...You may look at him/her in a different way....
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