Davinci Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Ok - am I crazy here and the only one to worry about be compared to my gf's ex boyfriends? I know of her history and she knows of mine but is it normal to compare yourself against a person you have never met? I don't think it's the sexual aspect just everything else. Why would I want to hurt her emotionally becasue she is mentioning a "hot" guy (as she would say) a large number of times and hurting me in the process? Apparently there may be an opportunity to meet a few of her ex-boyfriends as she is still friends with them. Yes, I know that I cannot change the past but is this just my insecurity. Also, why would I be insecure? One would imagine there are insecure people in the world but is it possible her comments could have encouraged the insecurity further? I agree that I should live for the present and just be happy with the here and now but why is this still bothering me? Why would I feel I need to prove myself to her?
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