RyTom21 Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 I'm about to have sex for the first time, and I have some worries. These questions are for all the women out there. 1. If a man were to ejaculate 10 seconds after penetration, but then takes the time to also give you an orgasm with his fingers or tongue, would you still care that he came to early? 2. What would your reaction be if a man said this to you just before intercourse? "I'm really nervous, and I just want to please you. Can you tell me how to do that"? 3. My penis is average sized, but I feel that I have unusually small testicles. As a woman, would this matter to you? 4. This is a follow up question to number 3. At full erection, I am 5 1/2 inches. With no erection, I am just under 2 inches long. As a woman, which matters most to you. The size a man is when he's limp, or when he's hard?. Does limp size even matter?
Lauriebell82 Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 i think ur worrying about this too much. do u have a gf who ur about to have sex with? its normal to be nervous and scared about ur first time, but if ur in a relationship with a girl she'll probably be understanding. is she a virgin to? but anyway here are my answers to ur questions. 1. first of all if ur a virgin u'll probably come early. maybe u should just focus on actual intercourse instead of giving her an orgasm. ur already going to be nervous so just enjoy regular penetration. but personally, i like foreplay or even a man trying to pleasure me while going very slowly during intercourse. 2. personally i woul be a little turned off by the insecurity. of course this is ur first time and its very natural to be nervous. if ur partner knows this is ur first time she will(hopefully) be understanding and caring and already know that ur nervous. sure u can ask how she would like to be pleasured, its always nice when a guy asks what we want. too much insecurity prior to sex is kind of a mood killer though, so i wouldnt overdue it. 3. average size is good. too big or two small has drawbacks. dont worry about size being limp, thats natural to be smaller so we dont hold that against u (or at least i dont.) and the testicles dont really matter..we dont have that much use for them if u know what i mean! anyway i hope i helped u. the first time is always scary, but just try to relax and enjoy it. not everything is going to go absolutely smoothly (which is totally normal!) but the more often u do it the better u'll be! oh and remember to use protection, thats a must! but good luck!!!! 3.
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