Guest Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 just to give a little background..There is a guy who I started hanging out with during Christmas break. We saw each other practically every day and would have sex. But we didn't always have sex. I felt like it was a booty call for awhile cause he would always call at night and then come over not to mention he was an ass and would talk about other girls around me..like..she's hot and blah blah blah. After awhile he opened up and told me that he got his ex gf of 1 1/2 years pregnant and she had an abortion. They aren't together anymore..I guess because he's mad that she lied at first and said that she had a miscarriage and she's moving to another country. Then on the 4th of july, he had a foursome with some girls..he tells me now he wasn't too proud of that. he knows that bothers me, and he said that I know you aren't saying anything about this because you dont want things to be bad between us. I didn't say anything. I guess my question is...do you think it's possible that it could work between us? Let me tell you how things have changed in the last month.. We didn't talk much before when we started hanging out..I was just a listener. But in the past month..he's called me EVERY SINGLE NIGHT! We'll usually talk anywhere from 1/1/2 hours to 4 hours..I once even taked to him for 8 hours!!! He's always the one that calls me. Unless I return his call. On the phone he was randomly like..."if there was a pretty okay looking guy that offered you 50,000 dollars to have sex with him, would you? I was like, well duh! I was just joking but I dont think he sensed it. Then I was like..if there was an okay looking girl that offered you 50,000 dollars for sex would you do it? He was like..no! I was like you lier! He was like..no i wouldn't. I asked why. He said, because of you, I couldn't. (i'm away at my college, he's away at his) We both always go home on the weekends. Then I'll usually get a call at night..he'll be like "what's up" and then eventually he'll come over. He's told me before that he likes me..but he needs time to get over his ex. and a girl who is more convenient (i.e. at his college) Now..he's telling me that he's going to transfer out of his college and move back home to go to college..he knows that I'll probably be doing the same. Is he partially doing it for me? IDK what to think. I asked him "can you see us together in the future?" he said yes, that's why he's gone out of his way to drive 600+ miles to see me at college a few times..AND during break he'd always drive over to see me or pick me up...i never did any of the driving.
Recommended Posts