Grrlish Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 I mean yesterday, he took me to lunch and was really 'hot', really happy to see me, wrote me a great email afterward...then last night I didn't get a call from him, and today he has written one really brief 'how are you' email...he could be really busy at work though. Whoa, Paris. Slow down, girl. When a guy calls me every single day in the beginning, I take it as a sign that I'm the one who is going to have to keep my foot on the brake for a little while. Compliments are really wonderful and should be shared but if he's drowning me with blatant compliments, I start to feel on-guard. Player or not, a lot of guys dive in headfirst, eyes closed, without pacing themselves. (So do a lot of women.) The pursuee just has to keep a clear head about themselves and protect their heart. I'm a little concerned that you feel like he's so completely enthralled with you after less than 2 weeks. A lot of guys (players or not) gush easily in the beginning. It doesn't mean that they're not being truthful but it's something even less than infatuation, at less than 2 weeks. Keep your perspective, Paris. I don't think that 3 dates (2 dinners and lunch) is too much in 10 days. That sounds about right to me if he's interested in you. Just keep your foot on the brake if you're interested in getting to know him.
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