emotionsmessmeup Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 so I made out with a friend and it was awsome...and actually we just got carried away....and i dont think we will ever do it again...we are just friends... but it was great..although we didnt have sex...but whatever kissing and touching we did..it was very pleasurable for me...How do I know if it was pleasurable for him too? I said sorry and decided all is cool and we should go back to being friends as we were. It was just a moment..
LN99 Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 Well I would say ask the person how they felt and if they enjoyed it. But then again, if your going back to just being friends, that could be awkward.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 well first of all i dont think friends hooking up and than forgetting about it is that great of an idea. i'm not judging u but honestly it is going to be ackward. if u ask him how he felt about it, he may be confused and not give u a straight answer if u went back to just being friends. are u interested in this guy? do u have feelings for him? howdid u guys end up fooling around in the first place? its going to be very strange to try to go back to the way things were (it probably never truely will be the same). if both of u feel the same way and think it was a mistake then talking about it may not be the best solution. if u want to be friends again why do u care how he felt about it? u thought it was a mistake so it kind of doesnt really make a difference if he liked it or not cause it sounds like ur mind is pretty made up here.
unsafe Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 Yes I agree. If you want to forget it happened and move on and "just be friends", then I think you should leave it alone. Who cares if he liked it, if you dont' want to do it again. If you want to do it again you have to ask yourself are you willing to give up the friendship if the relationship doesn't work. Because eventually "just friends" who hook up, fall in love and live happly ever after or they try to just be friends and they move on to others to fool around with and the friends gets jealous and weird. Take it from me. My boyfriend fooled around with his so called good friend years ago. And when we started dated she flipped out on me. Her and I became really good friends but once she knew he was serious about me and spend all or lets just say most of his time with me she lost it. She lost 20 pounds because she couldn't eat. I was living with her and she kicked me out. So thats just one example. But usually women will get attached if you keep fooling around. So you might get hurt if you dont' want to make it more then just fooling around, and if you want to stop it now. Then don't ask him. It's only going to make you want to do it again because you said it was pleasureful. I would say either take it to the limit, or back off completely. Two choices.
Salicious Crumb Posted February 6, 2007 Posted February 6, 2007 so I made out with a friend and it was awsome...and actually we just got carried away....and i dont think we will ever do it again...we are just friends... but it was great..although we didnt have sex...but whatever kissing and touching we did..it was very pleasurable for me...How do I know if it was pleasurable for him too? I said sorry and decided all is cool and we should go back to being friends as we were. It was just a moment.. A comedian once said.."ladies...you don't have to be good...you just have to be there!"
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 7, 2007 Author Posted February 7, 2007 haha that is a very good one.. yea i am sure all i want to dois be friends with him.. i guess i just havent got laid in a while... we were just chilling at his terrace coz i was too drunk to drive back home when it all happened.
Lezbean Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 Did he have a wet spot in his jeans? If so, he enjoyed. Liz
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