Staci Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 So I was reading into things on the net about being needy and i guess that is what I am...the need to feel liked by someone to feel better about myself. That is who i am and I realize it but I dont want to be like this forever. How am I supposed to fix this? The confident, sexy guys that I go for will not like the needy, insecure girls like me. And settling for less isnt what Im going to do nor will I lower my standards for myself. There is always time and room for change...Its just that Ive gone through this for soo long now i just feel trapped and depressed trying to better myself and fix all the negative qualities. Ive been dating this guy for only a month and we already say i love you to each other. I was taking things slow in the beginning and acting very confident...but then he started becomg very emotional on me and sensitive. Always wanted to know how I felt and If he made me happy. hes a great a guy and really does care. When I am thinking too much and quiet he will try and understand what is going on but I dont tell him everything. Im too scared he wont like me for it. Now I just feel trapped and dont know what to do. Im also depressed and when we are together I feel the need to act happy because if not he'll feel that its him whose making me feel depressed. I tend to be shut off about my feelings of sadness and dont like telling him about it. In the beginning I sort of dated him because he liked me and it made me feel good. Now i dont know if i really do love him or not...Maybe I just need to take things slower and be who I am like I was before. Thats the girl he liked...but then again when we first started talking I was on my best behavior and maybe acted a little fake. Now he might be seeing the real me and doesnt like it. I dont know i am feeling confused about this and very insecure that hes starting to lose interest. Im scared to talk to him about it. I want to feel happy with him and I shouldnt be like this...I want to tell him some things but I dont know where to start or anything.
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