Guest Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 I met my bf about a year ago and he fell for me fast, that by a month after dating he wanted me to move into his house with him. I was afraid to give up apartment and also felt funny about moving in with someone when we weren't even engaged, but I never felt this way before and he seemed so sure of us. He was always telling me how he finally met the girl of his dreams, the one he wants to marry. He knew he wanted to marry me, that it was just a matter of time. I finally decided to move in with him after 3 months and just around that time he lost his job. The weekend of the big move he told me with tears in his eyes, that as soon as he can, he will do the right thing (meaning get engaged). Now it's 8 months after I moved in and we aren't engaged. He did get a great job but it took a couple of not so good jobs to find it (he started in Nov). He's always making comments about getting married. Talks about a family. And now he's going around telling everyone I'm his wife. But no proposal, nothing. I'm afraid he's all talk. How do I know that he will make that step. I know money is just starting to get in order. And I'm not upset at that, it's just he talks so much about our future, our kids, our life together. But I just wish he'd take our relationship to the next level already. I feel like I took that huge step when I moved in with him and now he won't make the next step. Do you think he's all talk or should I just be patient and maybe he's got something planned all along? (I should mention we are both in our 30s)
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