brokenhart2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 My very casual 1st date was Wed. with this guy; he said to call him about the weekend so I left him a VM Friday night; and no call back; however I also know he already had some pre-planned things this weekend...what if I call him one day and just ask him out to dinner? I mean, we don't know each other well, we've only met twice briefly...but I think there was physical attraction..at least on my end! Not a lost cause just because he hasn't called right?
Reckless Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 I dunno - he got your VM so come next week really politeness dictates he give YOU a call and say he was busy but got the message... I mean he asked you to call him about the w/end, you called thus saying you like him and would like to see him again. Hate to go all 'The rulesy' on ya but isn't the ball kinda over on his side of the court?
Author brokenhart2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Author Posted February 4, 2007 I think the ball is in his court...however, I've just been thinking of trying something different and be the one to ask the guy out for the first time in my life. If he doesn't call me back then, game over...if he beats me to it, then great.
Author brokenhart2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Author Posted February 4, 2007 But chances are if he doesn't call by tomorrow or Tues...he's probably just not interested..right!
monkey00 Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 But chances are if he doesn't call by tomorrow or Tues...he's probably just not interested..right! In most cases, yes that would be the general conclusion
Krytellan Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 DO NOT talk to him unless he calls you back. If you call him again, he has all the control. If he's at all interested, he'll call. If he does, sure ask him out. I think women should ask guys out anytime they want to or else risk letting potentially great things pass you by because you felt you "shouldn't have to" ask someone out.
Green Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 I'm a guy and I say just do what ever you want, if u want to call him do it, I mean if he doesnt like you it will become obviouse and you calling probably wont effect anything,
Author brokenhart2007 Posted February 5, 2007 Author Posted February 5, 2007 I'm a guy and I say just do what ever you want, if u want to call him do it, I mean if he doesnt like you it will become obviouse and you calling probably wont effect anything, Exactly...I'll give it few more days but towards the weekend I'll call and if I get his VM I will just say I was wondering if he wanted to get dinner and drinks. If he doesn't call back, who cares? I already didn't expect him to call this weekend because he told me about all the plans he had, especially with Superbowl, yadda yadda, and we barely know each other, so it's like, who is this chick anyway? Nothing wrong with another chance.
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