What to do Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 I have known a guy that I really like for a few months now and we have gone to lunch a couple of times and coffee during the day recently. We have also kissed once before. We both really enjoy each other's company and from I had the impression that he likes me a lot. The problem is that he doesn't seem to want to see me at night, even a weeknight occasionally he'll entertain the idea and then somehow we don't end up seeing each other. I have finally asked him about this because even though we've only been on three dates, we seem to talk about things that allow the possibility that more will develop. He says that he takes his time and that he goes out at night regularly but not with me - yet... I assumed he meant that he wants to take things slow. Another time a couple of months ago I asked him to let me know if he was free on a Sat night, and he said he would get back to me and never did - so I had decided to give up on him for a while (we'd had two dates by then), but recently he'd popped up again and I decided to give him another go. Another weekend has gone by and I havne't heard from him since earlier in the week, although I will see him again in a couple of days by circumstance. Should I be concerned?
princesspeaches Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 If I were you, I'd cut my losses and start seeing other people. I wouldn't call him at all and I wouldn't answer the phone if he calls. Something sounds very strange there, the reason could be that he's got a girlfriend already or who knows. I'd do my best to forget all about him. I learned last year a very important lesson - Don't wait for someone who isn't waiting for you.
Star Gazer Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Should I be concerned? Yes. He's either married or has a live-in girlfriend.
LN99 Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Or he could be dating random people until he finds something better that comes along. If you were ok with that, then I would say to just keep seeing him. But, to me it sounds like your looking for a relationship. I wouldn't wait around too long for this guy then.
Krytellan Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 If a guy is interested in you, he'd see you and make time. For whatever reason (probably another relationship) he's not invested. The longer you stick, the more you likely compromise yourself. I would suggest getting back into the dating scene without him. Good luck though.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 he probably has a girlfriend or something..honestly if he wanted to see u, he would no matter what time of day. cut ur losses and just break up with him..sounds like he's a jerk.
justagirlforever Posted February 8, 2007 Posted February 8, 2007 Yes. He's either married or has a live-in girlfriend. From first hand experience - that's my thought. However, to test this true - ask him outright. And watch his reaction and listen to what he says very carefully. I bet you your gut feeling is true.
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