Guest Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Hi everyone!! I have a question that has been bothering me!! Please give me your opinions if you can I would be very grateful!! I am not so good at reading men!! I have started seeing this guy and we are having a great time (or I thgt we were), on the first date he was even talking about us in the future tense, holidays etc which bascically made me think he was quite into me anyway I have seen him a few times since then and its been good then yesterday when I saw him he started talking about wanting to go somewhere hot on holiday with me. I stupidly replied 'oh you might have got bored with me by then' I know it was prob. the wrong reaction but I guess I wanna take things slowly and also I was just kinda flirting... Anyway then he started saying if that was the case he was sure he 'would find someone else pretty quickly' and then as an after thought he said tho obviously they wouldnt be you. but anyway it kinda hurt a bit but I didnt show it, in fact I totally ignored it and didnt respond as if I hadnt heard. Then he made a point whilst he was on his laptop of showing me all the ladies on myspace that had been messaging him and seemed very pleased with himself and implied he would like to see one of them but '18 was probably pushing it.' Later after a meeting with 3 girls he was hiring, he said he was taking them all on 'because they were all young and very attractive so thats good.' Now I don't know what to think!! !!!
Guest Posted February 7, 2007 Posted February 7, 2007 This sounds like my situation. I've been kinda seeing a guy for a little over a month and he'll sit on myspace and show me his friends that are girls too and it hurts! He'll write things like "you're hot' and other stuff. He told me that he likes me..but it has been more than a month..why aren't we flippin together?! There are two things that I think it could be for you...either one..he's just not that into you...or two he is into you and sometimes when a guy is into a girl he trys to show off and it can come off as him looking like an ass! Just wait it out..it'll become obvious soon..he can't hid his true self for long! Hi everyone!! I have a question that has been bothering me!! Please give me your opinions if you can I would be very grateful!! I am not so good at reading men!! I have started seeing this guy and we are having a great time (or I thgt we were), on the first date he was even talking about us in the future tense, holidays etc which bascically made me think he was quite into me anyway I have seen him a few times since then and its been good then yesterday when I saw him he started talking about wanting to go somewhere hot on holiday with me. I stupidly replied 'oh you might have got bored with me by then' I know it was prob. the wrong reaction but I guess I wanna take things slowly and also I was just kinda flirting... Anyway then he started saying if that was the case he was sure he 'would find someone else pretty quickly' and then as an after thought he said tho obviously they wouldnt be you. but anyway it kinda hurt a bit but I didnt show it, in fact I totally ignored it and didnt respond as if I hadnt heard. Then he made a point whilst he was on his laptop of showing me all the ladies on myspace that had been messaging him and seemed very pleased with himself and implied he would like to see one of them but '18 was probably pushing it.' Later after a meeting with 3 girls he was hiring, he said he was taking them all on 'because they were all young and very attractive so thats good.' Now I don't know what to think!! !!!
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