when do you say enough is enough????

[hopelesslyinlove07]

All we do is fight.

 

we cant be with one another for longer than 10 minutes without fighting and its always about the same stuff. neither of us are willing to compromise.

 

i love him with all my heart but i'm just getting to a point where i'm sick of all the fighting.

 

every time we fight, we make up, but we never resolve anything, the next morning he just pretends like nothing has happened.

 

i dont think we make one another happy anymore.

 

it'll be three years we've been together this year. i seriously dont know what to do. we can not keep going on like this. i dont want to spend the rest of my life arguing but at the same time i can't see my life with out him.

 

please help me!!!!!!!

[loveratud]

Go to counseling. This is something worth saving.

[kymberann]

Balance the good and the bad. If the bad outweigh the good then there is part of your answer!

Best!

[Lauriebell82]

have a serious talk about WHY u are fighting. couples fight mainly because of miscommunication. if u really love each other and have been together that long than maybe u should do something about it. talk about why ur fighting, what both of u are feeling when u fight, how u feel about the other person, ect. if this doesnt work maybe try counseling.

[Guest]

Maybe you should both go to conscouling. I mean if you love him that much and he loves you the same, it's worth one more try. See if he'd go with you. Maybe it just takes someone to on the outside to help you both work out your differences. But you will both have to take it seriuosly for it to work.

 

If he doesn't want to go, then it's really up to you if you can take the relationship as is. But you are right to be concerned, because it's not healthy to argue so much and if you end up married with kids, it wouldn't be healthy for the kids.

 

Good luck.