indep361 Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 For a description of my story look here. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t110900/ Well I only made it two days with no contact, but I did finally convince myself that I can't expect to get back with my ex. I decided I was going to move on with my life as if we were never getting back together. Well it worked wonders for me. This past week was great. I started doing stuff for myself and was happy. I wasn't constantly thinking about my past relationship. Up until today that is. I had to go shopping for my son's birthday and just happened to be be in the town that my ex lives in. Not on purpose by any means. Well when I am on my way up there she calls me. Of course I answer. She ends up going out with me to go shopping. It was like the first time we met. We got along really well and had fun. I take her back and drop her off and she makes the comment that I seemed happy. So I just told her that I couldn't wait around any longer. That I have to live my life like we weren't getting back together. Hope for the best, expect the worse. Well she calls me about 4 times on my way home, hinting that I come back up. I told her that I had to get home and go to work. Well I get home and she calls me three more times in about 30 minute time frame that I am in the shower. Leaves me messages to call her she wants to talk. Well I am thinking that she is going to tell me she wants to get back together. So I don't call back right away and she calls and leaves another message saying not to call she doesn't want to talk right now. So I am like what the f***. I call her and she just blows it off. She forgot what she wanted to talk about. Yeah whatever. So I stew on this all night. I finally decided I would just send her an email explaining myself, cause I kind of hinted to starting to date again, but didn't want to play the jealousy card cause that would really turn her off. Well when I get up today I have a message saying, please call her as soon as I get up. I do and she says that she is out shopping, but wanted to have dinner tonight, but didn't think she would have time, but would call me later. So I sit here all day waiting for her to call thinking that she wanted to get back with me. Well she finally calls about 7 hours later saying she was still shopping, but that this male friend of hers is coming over to watch a movie later. So I just say ok, but I guess my tone gave me away. Well then she asks why I am mad and I tell her that I was thinking that she wanted to see me, but she said that she didn't have time and now this friend is coming over. Ok I am jealous. I admit it. I forgot to put this in but I also told her that I was planning on taking the money I had saved to buy her an engagement ring and buying a new dryer, couch, and a few other things. She says to me don't you think you should just hold on to it for a while in case you meet someone and decide to get married. I have a hard time believing that she actually wishes I meet someone else. Anyway I am just reading too much into stuff, or am I really getting played here. Input is always appreciated.
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