sylviaguardian Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 ...to anyone who remembers me - it is a while since I posted. I am nearly 3 past d-day and doing OK actually. Last September we had agreed to divorce but we have been to MC since then and just had our last session last week. It wasn't a magic wand but it has helped. Our relationship is not 100%, I don't know if it will ever be now but at least some positive feelings are coming back. Anyway, I wanted to also give some hope to newbies out there. It has been a long, long haul but I guess at the moment I am glad that we tried. i wouldn't wish an affair on anyone but it's not a total deal breaker. Sylvia P.S. Where are you all? Owl? Thumbs? lady Jane? Veronese? Say hi and tell me how you are doing.
Ladyjane14 Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Hi Sweetie! So glad to hear from you. I wish we were hearing you've got the whole 100% already, but it sounds like maybe you'll still get there. You've put in a good fight, and even though it's been difficult, there must have been SOMETHING worth having that kept you hanging on this long. I don't think you'd have put yourself through all that if you didn't see something special in him.
mopar crazy Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 ...to anyone who remembers me - it is a while since I posted. I am nearly 3 past d-day and doing OK actually. Last September we had agreed to divorce but we have been to MC since then and just had our last session last week. It wasn't a magic wand but it has helped. Our relationship is not 100%, I don't know if it will ever be now but at least some positive feelings are coming back. Anyway, I wanted to also give some hope to newbies out there. It has been a long, long haul but I guess at the moment I am glad that we tried. i wouldn't wish an affair on anyone but it's not a total deal breaker. Sylvia P.S. Where are you all? Owl? Thumbs? lady Jane? Veronese? Say hi and tell me how you are doing. Hi Sylvia! Nice to "see" you! You've done what you could, there is no shame in ending it. We just want to see you happy. Things here are going ok. My M isn't 100% happy but we are still working on it also. It's been 3/5 years since my dday and even though I thought the pain would never end it has gotten so much better. The A is more like a nightmare right now. I don't come to LS much anymore myself but started posting again about a week ago. Hope things continue to get better for you.
veronese Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Hi Sylv, nice to see you again. About to leave the office now but will try to write more over the weekend. Not entirely sure why but I've been feeling very calm and at peace recently. That's not to say that I don't still wonder about stuff but I'm definitely not stressing myself thesedays. Only a matter of time before I start again though! Hugs Veronese x
Mz. Pixie Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Good to see you Sylvia- I'm glad things are a bit better.
Flyin in Clouds Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 ... i wouldn't wish an affair on anyone but it's not a total deal breaker. It would be for me. But I think it is a little easier for a woman to forgive than for a man. Not easier, but more possible.
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