candykisses Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 My best friend had set up a night out with her guy and with another couple, well the other couple broke up before the night out. She called me to see if I was interested in "filling in" with our guy friend, I said sure, I haven't seen him in a while and it would be nice to get caught up. First part of this is.....I was talking to a girl friend of mine about this "double date" and my crush overheard me saying this and he goes " who's going out on a double date" and I ignored him partly to see what kind of reaction he was going to give. Again he goes "who are you going out on a double date with, me?". At that point I had to go but about half and hour later he follows me into the room I was going to and he again asked who I was going out. So I told him a little bit of the situation and then he goes "oh that's not a double date" and then he smiles and pats me on the back. Was he jealous at first? Second part.....well its the day that I'm suppose to go out with my friends and I get a call saying that the guy was sick and he wasn't going to make it. So I call up my crush and say "so you remember the outing I was going on tonight". Well of course he did, so anyway I tell him that the guy got sick and asked him if "he wanted to take his place" and he says yes and tells me to call him in a couple of hrs since he is at work and let him know of the time, which I did. We talked for a few minutes and then he tells me he is busy and he will call me back later. Well he calls me when he gets off and tells me he is on his way home and he will call me then. He gets home and gives me a call and tells me that he is really tired and that he is just going to stay in for the rest of the evening(he didn't get off work until 1am the night before and he had to be back at work at 7:30 the next morning to work a 10 hr day). So anyway we end up talking for about half hour. My question(s) do you think that he would consider this a date or just helping out a friend? He did mention taking a reincheck if he wasn't able to make it, in our earlier conversation when we figuring out times and stuff. Should I bring up going out together again or let him?
tanbark813 Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 I think you should bring it up. Have you guys been out before? You say your "crush" but it kind of makes a difference if this is just some guy you like or if you guys have been dating. It also sounds like the guy is pretty laid back. Personally, if a girl I was interested in asked me out at the last minute as a replacement for some other dude I'd be pretty offended.
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