what2donow Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I've been dealing with this for over 2 years now and I'm curious about what others think. My H and I remodeled our kitchen over 2 years ago- I mean completely gutted it. One area where we knocked down a wall was not covered up with new walls or cabinets. So here we are, 2 years later, and there is STILL a hole in the ceiling! It's not huge, but definately noticeable -- about 6"X3". After all the work we did, H said he needs a break for awhile and then will fix it. No problem. A year later, I asked about it and he said he remembered, he'll get to it. A few months later, I asked again. This time he got huffy and said he'll do it later. So I said that I thought this was something I could do on my own, since it bothered me and not him. He said no, he will do it. So when the 2 year anniversary rolled around, I didn't ask, just pointed up to the hole (smiling sweetly, of course!) This time he got angry about it and said he's been busy and he'll do it when he's got the time. Again, I said that I would do it because it is driving me crazy. And again, he told me to not touch it and to just drop the whole thing. Should I go ahead and fix it myself and not mention it? I wonder if he would even notice. Now this whole thing has become "taboo" and not to be metioned again and I'm sooo frustrated! Any comments???
Can'tGiveUp Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Fix it...it's your kitchen too. You've given him plenty of time and it's just going to keep bothering you.
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