Cossette4 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Ok, so this morning I woke up to the news that Phil predicted an early spring and it got me thinking, if an immortal rat can be so optimistic, why can't I? I've decided I'm sick of feeling sick about my situation. It's been 6 and a half months, and I don't want to spend any more time on him, the skank, their gross myspaces, etc. I don't want to spend another second wondering if he will ever realize he's made a mistake, if I'll get an apology, if he reaaaallly likes her or if it's just a rebound, and all the other worries that have been running through my mind. I just realized how sad and pathetic their lives are and how my sweet awesome life has been put on hold for their crappy disgusting behavior. I DON'T CARE ANYMORE. YAY. And today, I challenge you who have been suffering for months and months, wondering if this will ever end, to just END IT (or at least make a start at ending it) today, Groundhog Day 2007. If there's a Myspace you've been stalking, stop looking at it. Tracking and recording all the ridiculousness will only upset you and set you backward. Nothing you "find" will change the situation. (I found a professional photo of the two of them and she commented on her own photo, "Isn't your girlfriend HOT?" And it made me want to vomit and sunk me to such a low point, and I've decided that's totally not something I want to drag myself through again.) If there's a huge question in your mind--Did he cheat? Does he still love me? Will he apologize? What's he doing right now?--It's OKAY that it's not answered. You'll be cool no matter what--it's the people who hurt us who ultimately have to deal with that. Sucks for them. If it still plagues you that he/she is totally head over heels in love with someone else, or totally over you and doesn't care if you are even breathing, hey, that's OKAY, too. We will find awesome people that do care. Good thing we didn't end up with these losers. If you feel like a lonely pathetic sad loser, DON'T. You won't always be this way. If you feel like dating, date. If you aren't ready, realize how OKAY it is to be single. Think of how strong we are that we don't need to rush into another's arms to validate ourselves. We are pretty strong and awesome, huh? Seriously, try implementing this stuff. I doubt it'll just work in a snap and you'll just feel super automatically, but at least CHALLENGE feeling terrible and see where it takes you. Then see how you feel Groundhog Day 2008, because that day will be awesome. Peace out.
laRubiaBonita Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Ok, so this morning I woke up to the news that Phil predicted an early spring and it got me thinking, if an immortal rat can be so optimistic, why can't I? firstly he is of the squirrel family.... so maybe the fact that Phil ain't a rat is why he is soo cheerful.... that and he works like 2 minutes evry year.
Davis Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Hey Cossette! See how much better you are thinking and doing already! What a change in your attitude! Keep it up and keep your Groundhog promise to yourself!!
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