brokenhart2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 I'm a 30 yr old female, which I know is not old by any means; but I went on a date with a guy that's 26 the other night; and I dig him so far, very attractive in my eyes, fun, ambitious, adventerous; he seems to be at the point in his life where he is beginning to mature more. He said he's buying a house this summer. It was a very laid back date, like having a beer with your buds, and we talked about each other, but then his roommate came and had a beer with us. I didn't care, except it sord of took the word "date" out of the equasion.. When we left he said to call him for getting together this weekend. So i"m going to call him tonight. Anyway, the only thing that seemed to lack was his ability to be romantic....which is fine for a casual 1st date...and he seems at the tail end of his "partying" phase...since I'm 30, I desire more romance than I did when I was, say, his age! Plus, I'm looking to settle down. I'll still date him and have fun, I just wonder if this guy, given his age and mentality, how do you know if he's the committmed type, or romantic type, does a guy this age even want a girlfriend or does he just want to run around? I know it's a matter of getting to know him better; I guess I just want opinions...if anyone has any...there can be a big difference between 30 and 26 ya know..
burning 4 revenge Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 not another one of these... you're the same age. you could be siblings, there's barely a difference
tanbark813 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 When I was 26 I wanted a committed relationship, even one that might lead to marriage. I still have a bit of partying left in me, though. And I'm nowhere near being able to buy a house (partially because this area is insanely expensive). So yeah, from what you said he sounds like he's mature for his age.
Mythical Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Hey Brokenhart, lol my b/f is 26 years old. I am only 20. I don't think you need to worry about him not being able to be romantic i gues it just depends if he is in general or not. My "man" definetly isn't too mature like you said they are prob still in their party faze. But....his best friend who is very immature (and 26) met a 32 year old a couple months ago who has totally change dhim for the better!! i consider myself to be a mature 20 year old...all my friends seem like thier still in high school to me....I guess it could work the same way for 26-30! Try him out...you really can't judge on age goodluck!
Author brokenhart2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 Hey Brokenhart, lol my b/f is 26 years old. I am only 20. I don't think you need to worry about him not being able to be romantic i gues it just depends if he is in general or not. My "man" definetly isn't too mature like you said they are prob still in their party faze. But....his best friend who is very immature (and 26) met a 32 year old a couple months ago who has totally change dhim for the better!! Guess I just wanted to know it's not hopeless...I'm excited about this new boy...(I mean man, of course! lol) thanks all you've really helped...I just love this web site...
Author brokenhart2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 When I was 26 I wanted a committed relationship, even one that might lead to marriage. I still have a bit of partying left in me, though. And I'm nowhere near being able to buy a house (partially because this area is insanely expensive). So yeah, from what you said he sounds like he's mature for his age. I know SF is rediculous in cost of living..I have family there...what a beautiful place though! what you said makes me feel better
georgejungle Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Everyone is different. My friend is the same age as me, but is always broke, just loves to mess around and play video games, but i'm more responsible with my money, i like to read, everyone is Different. SO, some dude who's 26 could be looking to settle down. Some other 26 year old dude could just want to party. And that doesn't just go for people in their late 20's, i know guys in their 30's who still don't want to settle down. It just depends. You just have to see for yourself. But don't get stressed trying to find someone to settle down with, have fun too.
VinaAmez Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Everyone is different. A 26 year old could be more mature then say someone who is 35. DEPENDS ON THE PERSON!
Pyro Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Everyone is different. A 26 year old could be more mature then say someone who is 35. DEPENDS ON THE PERSON! Very true. I know people older than 40 who still have the maturity level of a 16 year old.
Pyro Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Oh that's really bad. I wish that they would change their way of thinking and open their eyes a bit, but I guess that part of being stubborn is not admitting your faults.
VinaAmez Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 You know I'm a firm believer that some people don't. A very good friend of mine is the same way. She is stuck in this I'm 16 level and she will NEVER get out of it. Her mom told me that she will grow out of it. Yeah freaking right. I'm still waiting. Personally I think her mom's in denial.
Pyro Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 You know I'm a firm believer that some people don't. A very good friend of mine is the same way. She is stuck in this I'm 16 level and she will NEVER get out of it. Her mom told me that she will grow out of it. Yeah freaking right. I'm still waiting. Personally I think her mom's in denial. I believe its denial. Lots of people are taught to believe that they should ALWAYS look after themselves first and foremost all the time, even if it means stepping on top of others. Unfortunately this world has turned selfish and greedy and many are going along for the ride.
VinaAmez Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 I believe its denial. Lots of people are taught to believe that they should ALWAYS look after themselves first and foremost all the time, even if it means stepping on top of others. Unfortunately this world has turned selfish and greedy and many are going along for the ride. Oh I agree.
jusified Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 Yea, its he individual not the age. I'm 21 and I just want a committed relationship with a genuine and nice girl. I have no desire to go play the field or go parties to pick p every weekend. Just me I guess.
johan Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 All men reach full maturity at 27. He's still a boy.
monkey00 Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 age doesnt determine maturity. people mature at different times...and well some never mature at all. As for your question, my bro's 26 he has his own house and is getting married this summer...so it depends where one's life is at in the present and where/when it will progress.
Star Gazer Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 All men reach full maturity at 27. He's still a boy. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: If only that were true!!!
filiasan Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 I honestly couldn't tell you, because it's different for different guys. I've known a 22-yr-old to be more mature than I am at 29. Yet, I've known one five years older who has the maturity of a 16-yr-old.
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