JA2 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Today is our anniversary. In the past my bf use to talk about marriage and getting engaged all the time. To the point where it was on my mind all the time and I felt like he might do it real soon, so I would wonder when and how. He does knows I want to marry him. Then this past month he just stopped talking about marriage and getting engaged. It was actually nice this way I didn't have to think about it all the time. But then last night he started in again. And he just wouldn't stop talking about it. He was calling me by his last name. Telling me that will be my last name soon. Then what really threw me was when he said when are we getting married and I responded why don't you ask yourself that question and to my surprise he responded, well you don't want me to do that because if it was up to me we'd be married yesterday. I don't know where that came from, he's never said he was in a rush to get married. So then today he writes me a nice email saying that today marks the day of all days throughout the year, that he he wants to go out tonight to celebrate, that he loves me so much and he wants to honor that. I'm just so confused. I know you probably think I'm crazy, but the reason why I am so confused is I started to accept the fact that we might not get engaged for a few months and I was finally okay with it, but after last night I just can't stop thinking that maybe he might propose real soon, maybe even tonight. Am I crazy. Is it possible that he might be getting ready to propose. I've waited for this moment my whole life, to be with the man I love with all my heart and to have him ask me to marry him. I just don't want to get my hopes up. I know our day will come, but I don't know why I just feel like it's real soon. Please help.
tikigods Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 how long have you guys been together? Also instead of focusing on engagment why not just enjoy your relationship right now, when it happens it happenes
Grrlish Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 I'm not quite understanding what the problem is. You love him and would like to marry him. He loves you and would like to marry you. I'm not sure what you're worried about. Sounds like a good thing to me. If he doesn't proposed tonight or soon, the next time he bring up "when are we getting married?", tell him that 'when' is a topic best discussed when he proposes. Until he proposes, it's all hypothetical.
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