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Going to have to break my NC, to enforce her NC

RocketMan2

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RocketMan2 Established Member

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So she just rang me and left an answerphone message about how shes been taking so many c*cks that she cant walk 100 yards from her work to get her stuff from my mates house and will i be her slave....

 

I have to text her to tell her to stop talking to me. Im going to do it, it needs doing. Id appreciate some help with the wording so i dont provoke anything, and so she knows to F*** OFF!!!!!!!!

 

 

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K. Im having an incredibly difficult time trying to forget about you. You made your choice that you don't want me in your life so please stick to it and stop contacting me. Every time you do is torture for me. Please leave me alone.

 

Rocket

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K. Im having an incredibly difficult time trying to forget about you. You made your choice that you don't want me in your life so please stick to it and stop contacting me. Every time you do is torture for me. Please leave me alone.

 

Rocket

 

 

You sound like a huge wuss.

 

Just say: Please leave me alone. There is no reason for us to be communicating anymore.

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Thats just not me.

 

But being me got me in this mess in the first place, so maybe its time for a change....

miss snoopy Established Member

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Why don't you just tell her to f**k off, I mean literally?

CaliGuy Established Member

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NO!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Don't say JACK CRAP to her. Say NOT ONE SINGLE WORD.

 

Don't you see? She is doing this because you are implementing and STICKING to NC. The minute you break it to tell her to stop she is going to know she has you by the cohonies.

 

Don't do it. Ignore her.

 

Ignoring someone is worse than saying something mean to them. Ignoring someone is the most hurtful form of rejection, period.

 

IGNORE HER.

Am4Real Established Member

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NO!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Don't say JACK CRAP to her. Say NOT ONE SINGLE WORD.

 

Don't you see? She is doing this because you are implementing and STICKING to NC. The minute you break it to tell her to stop she is going to know she has you by the cohonies.

 

Don't do it. Ignore her.

 

Ignoring someone is worse than saying something mean to them. Ignoring someone is the most hurtful form of rejection, period.

 

IGNORE HER.

 

RM2,

 

We're all telling you the same thing, but Cali puts it best with frank wisdom about the effects of ignoring someone or a situation.

 

As we shared in posts earlier in the week, you are all over the map with your emotions, try to stay focused. Get a new mobile phone number if you have to; change your home phone number; change your email; change every and all forms of communication methods. Com'on man, be strong, we're here for you. Do not stoop to this person's level (used loosely).

 

Am4Real

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What a crazy person. She is trying to push your buttons, and it is working.

 

CaliGuy is right on the money.

 

Contacting her now is just an excuse to do so. She is trying to get you to contact her. Don't be a wuss. Just ignore her.

 

If you *really* want this to stop, then the best way is to never respond. Eventually she will go away. If you keep responding, she will keep contacting you. This could go on every six months for years.

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I just wanted to add here that she isn't contacting him to say she is sorry. The fact that she is leaving him messages about her "sex-capades" tells me that she is indeed bitter and angry that he isn't calling her.

 

GOOD!

 

And frankly, if an ex left a message like that on my answering machine all it would do is prove to me that by the grace of God I had been removed from a relationship with an utter loser.

 

Thank your lucky stars, mate, that you aren't with this woman.

Motor35 Established Member

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Rocket! You have been doing so well! Please, please, PLEASE do NOT reply to her at all. It is killing her and she is provoking you. This is driving her crazy. Keep it that way.

Pleeeeeease don't text her with anything. OH!! And, change your cell phone number.

Sorry for laying it on ya like that.

Hugs!

K

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NO!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Don't say JACK CRAP to her. Say NOT ONE SINGLE WORD.

Don't you see? She is doing this because you are implementing and STICKING to NC. The minute you break it to tell her to stop she is going to know she has you by the cohonies.

Don't do it. Ignore her.

Ignoring someone is worse than saying something mean to them. Ignoring someone is the most hurtful form of rejection, period.

IGNORE HER.

 

You know what, maybe thats exactly the point ive been missing....wow. I never thought of that. Thats kinda obvious now youve said it lol.

She could quite easilly go round and get her stuff, and not even i believe shes too lazy to get it herself. She could however just not want to face my friends, althought shes been contacting them (the girls) to try and do stuff like drinks, movie or whatever...

Hmmm.

They've have been ignoring her though, I have allegiance!

 

I know ignoring is the worst pain, thats exactly what she did to me to hurt me so badly. Twice!

 

I just wanted to add here that she isn't contacting him to say she is sorry. The fact that she is leaving him messages about her "sex-capades" tells me that she is indeed bitter and angry that he isn't calling her.

 

She didnt say anything sexual, that was just a bit of bitter sarcasm on my part, sorry lol. But your reply was excellent and helped anyway, so its all good!

 

Cali, you have such an excellent insight and knowledge on how to make people realise things!

 

Thankyou :)

 

 

Rocket

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What a crazy person. She is trying to push your buttons, and it is working.

 

CaliGuy is right on the money.

 

Contacting her now is just an excuse to do so. She is trying to get you to contact her. Don't be a wuss. Just ignore her.

 

Rocket! You have been doing so well! Please, please, PLEASE do NOT reply to her at all. It is killing her and she is provoking you. This is driving her crazy. Keep it that way.

Pleeeeeease don't text her with anything. OH!! And, change your cell phone number.

Sorry for laying it on ya like that.

Hugs!

K

 

 

You guys really think thats the cause and that shes not just a lazy sh*te that cant be botherd to get her own stuff for fear of facing my friends or to just continue using me as her slave?

 

Go on say yes, it was a really good feeling to hear you guys think shes suffering.

I can't believe i just said that. Thats nothing id ever say, but it just feels so good to say it! ahhhhh

 

Rocket

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CUZ I'M THE ROCKETMAN... oh yeah.

 

Don't respond! Ignore, ignore, ignore.

She sounds like a c*^t.

You'll have way more impact if you disregard her.

 

Respect yourself= ignore her.

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If you break NC and give your nice little speech which is by the way, waaaayyy too polite for this little trollop, you will be giving aaalll the power back to her.

 

IF you contact her to tell her not to contact you, she will only start contacting you more, and then you'll be contacting her again to ask politely to stop contacting you, and then she'll keep contacting you...................

 

Contact her and you've officially lost the battle.

 

She sounds like a piece of crap. You sound lovely and deserve someone who doesn't throw the word "cock" around so loosely (pardon the pun).....

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arggggg

 

Thanks for all the support everyone. I really needed that. Thankyou :)

Im going to change my number when ive finished writing this.

 

I really am trying to forget about her, i just cant. Why am I finding this so hard? :(

 

Shes just on my mind all the time :(

 

Theres absolutely no need for her to be being as horrible to me as she is. Does she REALLY have no heart? I dont believe that, shes a good person deep down i know that. Does she just not realise how her actions are affecting me? Thats why i was going to text that... to try and stirr the tiny bit of good within her to overpower her dark side and actually treat me with some respect. I havent dont anything to provoke her to be so mean to me. The girl who i was(am?) so in love with just turned overnight into an evil bitch. WHY??? HOW???

 

Taking a step back I know its just one girl. Theres plenty more fish in the sea. I know she wasnt all that great (in my head at least) but i still hold her so dear in my heart. We did everything together. I know that ties in with something Kimba (i think) said in another thread - that im confusing my pain for her with my pain for just missing the companionship. I know thats what im doing but Im incapable of separating them :(

 

I don't know how I can ever open my heart to anyone else again. Im really scared. I thought this girl was the world. She was my dream girl. I remember telling my mates on several occasions that I could marry her. I can see now that she wasnt, but how did i make that mistake? How do i not make it again? :(

 

I feel so lost and empty without her.

 

I love you K. Please stop hurting me :(

 

Rocket

Sup Established Member

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So she just rang me and left an answerphone message about how shes been taking so many c*cks that she cant walk 100 yards from her work to get her stuff from my mates house and will i be her slave....

 

I have to text her to tell her to stop talking to me. Im going to do it, it needs doing. Id appreciate some help with the wording so i dont provoke anything, and so she knows to F*** OFF!!!!!!!!

 

 

Im gonna put:

 

K. Im having an incredibly difficult time trying to forget about you. You made your choice that you don't want me in your life so please stick to it and stop contacting me. Every time you do is torture for me. Please leave me alone.

 

Rocket

 

 

I agree with Caliguy, and that was even before I read his response! Strange huh? Anyway, just keep up the NCing, get out, get AWAY! Ya know go for a drive, go sightseeing, go on a trip, get outta Dodge, it'll help take your mind off of her. Oh, by the way change your phone numbers too!:cool:

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Yep like what Caliguy said ignore her. She is not even worth a response!!!

 

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...shes a good person deep down i know that.

 

She probably is, but some people don't like digging that far.

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Why don't you just tell her to f**k off, I mean literally?

 

If you are going to say anything, say what miss snoopy said. (though NC is best).

 

Anyone that would message you to tell you how many c*cks she's been sucking, well what kind of person is she?

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Didn't the OP say that she hadn't actually said the bit about the c*cks, that was just him being sarcastic?

 

I could be wrong...

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RocketMan2 Established Member

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Yeah I was being sarcastic at how much of a slut i suspect shes been, which is of course the reason that she is unable to walk 100 yards from her work to my mates house to get her stuff (because shes taken so much, so cant walk...), rather than the fact that shes just a lazy manipulative, selfish bitch!

 

Never mind lol.

 

Thanks for all the support guys.

 

 

Rocket

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