Guest Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Hey all, been looking through the forum past couple of days now an its been helpful but i still cant really cope...i need to vent My bf an me have been together for a year tho its a LDR but only by about 130miles, we seen each other most weekends etc an all was fine, ment we had space inbetween seein each other. Anyway 5days ago he said he wanted us to go on a break cos he keeps arguein with me an not being a very nice bf which i will admit he has not been very nice lately well few months anyway. He has probs with work an family an other stuff but wont tell me about them an he says he has to deal with the probs first cos if he dont then we will prob end up breaking up and he will be the cause of it. Prob wont even end up as friends. He has said that he still wants to go to places an do what we had planned to do this year like going on weekends away etc so i have not to think that he wants it to end 100% but in his eyes this is what needs done. Asked him how long an he said "month..maybe...dunno" I have told him that i have been told the 'i need a break' by previous bf's an its ended with me being dumped an he says "but am not them"..."am me". I trust him and love him but i am soo scared. He does sound genuine but then again trust is my biggest flaw, i trust guys to much . I am gettin to the stage where i am really hurt cos he said he wanted a break an i dont know if i could take him back, because he has hurt me. if he comes back that is. I have not spoken to him since he said this to me. What do i do.. sorry for the vent but really needed to
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