Guest-L Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Hi, So maybe some of you remember me from back in September here are the highlights. Been with my guy for about 9 years (7 dating, 1 engaged, 1 married) He cheated on me with my Brother's wife who was also what I thought my closest friend. So my brother and his wife are now officially divorced and Brother has a girlfriend and seems happy. Me, my situation is kind of awful. So I kicked out husband day found out he cheated that was 5 months ago. We have to sell our home and are going to have to take a hit on it because we had just refinanced.(stupid) house is not selling. So, we feel like we really can't get divorced until we sell the house. husband and I don't really talk on the phone at all mostly divorce stuff. But, like once a week or once every two weeks he always wants to talk about how bad he feels and how he made a mistake and he wish he could go back. (meanwhile he is still seeing my brother's xwife) I have gone out with two people on dates, nothing has come of it really. But, one of them was a really good distraction for a while but, I feel like even little let downs are so magnified right now in my world. I am scared too because after my house eventually sells I have no plan as to where I will live or how I will afford it and I have no clue when it will happen. I feel like I am in limbo I am not divorced but am not married either I am not really separated either because it is truly over I will not take him back. But, I think this dragging on like this is so unhealthy. I wish I knew how to really just focus on being happy alone... rather than focusing on being lonely. There is much I want to improve on myself I just lack the motiviation. any advice?
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