PandorasBox Posted February 1, 2007 Posted February 1, 2007 This is a spin off thread from another one. The topic was about people who are insecure, clingy, in need of constant reassurance about things, and things never ever being good enough for them no matter what you do or say to them. I see where in some cases, and also in my case as well, that some of these peopole who are like this have also cheated. Cheated maybe to fill that empty void they feel that can not seem to fill themselves maybe. So my question is, these people who are like this, things that are never good enough for them, do you feel cheating goes along with how they see or view things? Does cheating kind of go hand in hand with people who feel nothing is good enough for them? Sure its a choice, but so is wheather or not they get help or want to change. Does anyone know of or ever been in a situation where they were with someone who was insecure or nothing ever pleased them, and it followed with cheating as well? What are your thoughts?
JackJack Posted February 1, 2007 Posted February 1, 2007 I don't know for sure if insecurity and people who are never satisfied goes hand in hand with cheating, but it very well could have some link there.
Author PandorasBox Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 I don't know for sure if insecurity and people who are never satisfied goes hand in hand with cheating, but it very well could have some link there. Thanks Jack. Very surprised there were not more replies though. I assume no one can relate.
ash519 Posted February 2, 2007 Posted February 2, 2007 Hi Pandora- I am (unfortunately) insecure and I do like reassurance from my bf that he still cares and i can imagine it is OBNOXIOUS!!! I am working on that. We have been together 2 years and (in response to this topic) I have never cheated on him and honestly cant even imagine ever cheating on him. I love him too much! I do see where your logic is coming from though. I guess it depends on the person and what makes them feel better.
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