GuestCMN Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Okay I know it may not seem like that big a deal.... I mean guys and porn almost always go hand in hand. BUT its becoming a problem. I'm normally not the jeleous type either! I may get on the computer after work or something and I find he is searched up to 10 diffrent types of porn a day!!!! I will ask him about it and he'll just say Oh thats from a long time ago. And I know thats not the truth!! It makes me feel so horrible..... like I'm never going to be enough for him. I can't compete with those beautiful size 0 girls. and I don't feel I should have to. Here latley its been the source of many arrguments. He constantly lies to me about it! I mean ya sure porn is fine... I don't have a problem with it... I have even volunteered that we make it fun and watch it together... which we did do once..... he looked at the screen the whole time....not once at me. I just don't know what to do... I've told him it hurts my feelings.... but he just can't seem to get enough..... WHAT DO I DO!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!
suunto Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Okay I know it may not seem like that big a deal.... I mean guys and porn almost always go hand in hand. BUT its becoming a problem. I'm normally not the jeleous type either! I may get on the computer after work or something and I find he is searched up to 10 diffrent types of porn a day!!!! I will ask him about it and he'll just say Oh thats from a long time ago. And I know thats not the truth!! It makes me feel so horrible..... like I'm never going to be enough for him. I can't compete with those beautiful size 0 girls. and I don't feel I should have to. Here latley its been the source of many arrguments. He constantly lies to me about it! I mean ya sure porn is fine... I don't have a problem with it... I have even volunteered that we make it fun and watch it together... which we did do once..... he looked at the screen the whole time....not once at me. I just don't know what to do... I've told him it hurts my feelings.... but he just can't seem to get enough..... WHAT DO I DO!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!! hi, well it is a big deal if its getting in the way of your relationship and lying about looking at it, is a bit lame your right you don't have to compete, there's only one of you so don't try to be anyone else, if he lies about it all the time sounds like he's in his own little world and in the real world he's obviously not up to it, he's sat next to you watching porn and just looked at the screen..................................... what a loser, he's giving us men a bad name i can't even imagine it, sitting on a sofa with a cute girl (you are cute aren't you, you don't need to be size 0) and just watching the screen, perhaps he's too afraid to get his head out of fantasy land and see if he can measure up in the real world, we'll see him posting on loveshack soon............ help i lost my girl because i look at porn and don't know how to fulfil a woman, basically, he's in control when he looks at porn and when he's with a real woman he's not and he's never going to be if he doesn't change.
HUMMINGBIRDLOVE Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 I feel your pain but this is one of the main reasons I have big issues with watching porn as a couple it just causes issues good luck
GuestCMN Posted February 1, 2007 Posted February 1, 2007 hi, well it is a big deal if its getting in the way of your relationship and lying about looking at it, is a bit lame your right you don't have to compete, there's only one of you so don't try to be anyone else, if he lies about it all the time sounds like he's in his own little world and in the real world he's obviously not up to it, he's sat next to you watching porn and just looked at the screen..................................... what a loser, he's giving us men a bad name i can't even imagine it, sitting on a sofa with a cute girl (you are cute aren't you, you don't need to be size 0) and just watching the screen, perhaps he's too afraid to get his head out of fantasy land and see if he can measure up in the real world, we'll see him posting on loveshack soon............ help i lost my girl because i look at porn and don't know how to fulfil a woman, basically, he's in control when he looks at porn and when he's with a real woman he's not and he's never going to be if he doesn't change. Thank you so much for the reply!!! I appreciate it very much! I actually was very skeptical about posting a thread with this personal problem I'm having! I had just decided to look up the problem and research it a bit when I saw this website pop up! But now that I know there are ppl like you out there willing to listen I will have to do it more often! More than anything I beleive listening is key in many strong relationships. I just hope I can make my bf see that!!
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