tui1987 Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 For those of you that are interested, I posted a thread about my ex and how i don't understand why he did it etc. And I also mentioned that i was doing the whole no contact thing but he contacted me to tell me about his housemate going into hospital...thought i'd give you an update on whats happened so far. Went to Birmingham on saturday for a party...he was meant to go with me...but obviously couldn't cos of his housemate. anyway he kept texting me all night that night and that was the first time he actually phoned me and spoke to me on the phone. I hadn't initiated anything that day..I was so good with the whole NC thing but it really bugged me when he text me the first time. It said something along the lines of "i feel reall s*** today don't wanna be alone tonight, might go to my brother's house and get drunk." I didn't reply... Then he phoned me and we had a chat about ho he's feeling and things are really bad for him at the moment. And i could tell he wasn't happy. I could tell from his voice that he was down. He was telling me how he can't get access to his housemate's bank account so now he's got to run the house on his own as well as feed himself and get to and from work.. I felt awful when he told me this. I'm out having a good time while he is at home struggling to survive. so i told him that if fhe needed any money to let me know. i've probably gone WAY beyond my call of duty here, but I still care for the guy...I still love him, still want him back etc and I felt useless being where i was. Anyway...he was on my mind all night that night...I couldn't have a good time at all...so i eventually went to my room with my friend...we had a heart to heart and he told me that my ex doesn't seem to realise how lucky he was and still is to have me etc...felt good letting off a bit of steam...my phone battery was dead so that was a good way of no contact with him too. The next day when i got home and turned my phone on i had about 10 messages from him...telling me his every move for the day!! the first one was "how was your night? hope it was fun...gimme a call" the next one was "i'm just going to the sunbed for 9 minutes before i go to the hospital" and they went on and on like that...so i text him back saying "sorry i didn't get back to you...my battery died...last night as a blast...bit mad but we had a good time." got no reply till the next morning...when he PHONED me again! And we had a really nice chat...had a few laughs and that last phone call made me realise how much i miss and love the guy...i want him back so much...but i don't know what to think from all these texts and phonecalls. bi'm playing it all by ear at the mo...but i just need to know how he really feels!! Opinions/Advice???
Author tui1987 Posted February 1, 2007 Author Posted February 1, 2007 for those of you that wanna know the whole story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t110690/
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