Guest Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 My boyfriend of some months had left a few things at his old girlfriends house and on the weekend we drove the 4 hours to pick them up.When we got there she was smug and nasty about things mentioning how he had all these different girls going while they were still together etc.Well I was glad to get away from there but her words did haunt me for some time afterwards. I knew that she would have put things on his lap top computer for him to see and last night he and I both were going through it and found pictures of her on there,new ones he had not seen of her dressed up for a ball and posing.Now this girl had said she took ALL of her things off this computer yet conveniently there they were. I looked at my partner and asked him if he wanted to deleted them and he said he didn't know.That he wanted to do that when he was ready,in his own time. I asked him why on earth he would want to keep these pictures of her that she clearly put on there to stir up emotions and he said then that he liked to keep some pictures of his past.Now this girl he has told me he didn't love so why would he want these pictures of her?I got upset and he started to get angry and one thing led to another and he ended up picking up his laptop and throwing it on the floor breaking it. Last night he slept on the couch,I was so angry and I told him it was over,that I wanted him to go but I was hurting and said things I didn't mean as I do love him very much.He got up for work this morning and I tried speaking with him nicely saying that he knew how I felt about these pictures and knew they upset me and if he loved me he would have kindly got rid of them as past is past right?well he could not see this and accused me of trying to start trouble. I tried speaking to him but he walked out and drove off so what now am I suppose to say or do?He thinks he is clearly in the right and so do I.I don't see why he needs to keep these pictures of her that she put on his computer just for him to see anyway when he has me in his life that he says he loves.
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