joriel Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 Ok, so I've never been the guy who meets a woman in a bar and actually calls. In fact, every woman I've ever dated has some how or another had some connection to a friend or a friend of a friend and we've initially met in much more intimate settings. So I guess I'm venturing into new territory here and I'm wondering what you folks think. Last week I went to a professional lecture and noticed a rather attractive woman that had some interesting comments and although we kept eye contact a couple of times, I had to run and didn't have a chance to ask her name. Saturday night however as I was making my exit from the bar (drunk by this time) she walked in and we struck up a brief conversation. Though I was intoxicated she once again seemed interesting and before I left she asked me if I was going to another (much larger) professional event this Thursday. I said yes, and proceeded to ask for her number. She gave it to me and I left. So now I'm wondering if I should call? And if I call, what should I say (as I don't actually remember what we talked about on Saturday due to the fuzzy drunk memory)? Ideally, I'd like to invite her for coffee or something, as the event on Thursday will be much too large to just randomly bump into her. I know this sounds ridiculous for a man in his mid-twenties but I'm seriously wondering what you folks think.
alphamale Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 um yea you should call her. ask her to go to the event on Thurs together then you can go out for a drink or dinner afterwards. she digs you man.
Sand&Water Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 RE: This is what I think, Joriel. Call her today or Wednesday and ask her out for coffee after the event. Suppose the event ends at 3:00pm, meet her for coffee down the street at 4:00pm. IF all goes well, and you sense she is a great catch follow through with dinner. Get to know her, real well, first. Sand&Water
angelbabylk Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 I agree with Sand&Water. It wouldn't hurt to give her a call and see what happens. Maybe you'll end up just being good friends, maybe you'll end up as more. You seem like a good person, Joriel... I've read your other posts (as I seem to be going through a lot of the stuff you posted in your link) and I think you deserve some time to get out and experiance more. But like sand & water said, get to know her first.
alphamale Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 But like sand & water said, get to know her first. naah...i would disagree. just use her for a casual relationship
Lauriebell82 Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 call her and ask her out! by not calling girls that u meet ur missing out on maybe finding someone really special. dont blow her off, give her a call and u guys might actually hit it off. prior to the event or after ask her out to coffee or a drink and see what happens!
gfto Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 And if I call, what should I say (as I don't actually remember what we talked about on Saturday due to the fuzzy drunk memory)? Say, "Hey, this is joriel, would you like to meet for coffee Sunday afternoon?" Keep it separate from this Thursday thing you're doing.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Ask her to meet you before/after the event for lunch/cocktails/coffee.
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