handsome Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 I will be amost two years this valentine's day, we have know each other and talked about many things before we used to talk for long hours and we used see each other more often I mean now also we do but it is not like before, sometimes we used to talk for almost like 3 hrs on the phone late nights and now I feel like I don't have anything to talk about, I mean I feel like what to talk when I call or she calls even she does not know what to talk so whenever we call each other all we do is mock each other or just fool around about something and talk about general issues surrounding us. I have told her that I want to get more close to her and know her more emmotionally and told her to tell me her personal and emotional feeling about anything and she does not know either what to talk about and me I dont know what to ask? I want to know more about her. I really want to get emotionally close to her. I mean I want our relationship to take it to next level the question still remains how? After these two years of relationship I still haven't met her parents because she is afraid to introduce me to her parents. The reason for this I think she is Indian and she had a bf before for three years in India and she lives here and they used to talk more on the phone I mean rather than meeting in person becasue he is to live in India. One day he wanted to ask her parents that he wanted to marry her and he did talk to her parents and there you go her parents refused and they broke up and he got married in India. Then I came into her life. I dont know is she scared? or what? I asked her so many times to slowly introduce me to her parents and as the time passes so that they can get to know me instead of giving them a surprise at once and another reason is she is still has 3 more years to finish her college. Whenever we talk about this she just shuts the issue up and when I really stress about this issue she say just leave it on the destiny which I dont like it. I know at some point I do believe in destiny but I dont want to take a chance I really want to spend rest of my life with this girl. I reallly love her and she loves me too. Even though I say I love you more often than her. sometimes she says that she will have to listen to her parents whoever her parents will tell her to marry she will obey them. she says they have raised her from childhood and they have the right to do so I mean its your life you have to take a decision. I mean what is this what about me? I just dont get it. Although I have told my parents about us and my family know about it and they dont have any objection about it. I really want to marry her and spend rest of my of life with her I love her too much. what should i do? questions? questions? questions? but I need some really good suggestions please!!!!!! thank you for reading. I really appriciate lot of suggestions from the people who were in this situation and who have been there and done that I want to develop a stronger realationship with her so that eventually she will give up and get married to me i hope......
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