Guest Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Hello everyone. My story is a little complicated but i´d appreciate any advice you may offer. And sorry for any grammar mistakes you may find but English isn´t my first language! A female friend of mine introduced me to this girl around June last year. I could tell she was interested in me, and I was a little interested myself, but due to my severe shyness (I know, I´ve been working on it) I didn´t do anything. We started having contact in the following months (mostly through her efforts), and I really started to like her. About a month ago I told her that I liked her and asked her if she would like to start dating. We have seen each other like 3-4 times in the last two weeks and talked almost daily through messenger or SMS, and thanks to some teasing from her friends and sister I found out that she liked me (I would have made my move at that party but she was embarassed by all the teasing and I didn´t want to make her feel uncomfortable. She is also a little shy). However, things have "cooled down" since that time and in the last two dates we´ve had our conversation has been pretty "standard". I fear that I missed my chance and should have acted at that party despite all the teasing, and that due to the irrelevant nature of the last two dates she thinks that I´ve lost my interest (especially since we recently had an IM conversation that was a little awkward). I´m sorry if the post seems a little confusing, but all I´m asking for is any opinion that you may have. Do you think I´ve crossed the line where she thinks I have no interest? If so, do you think there is a way back? Thanks!! Link to post Share on other sites
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