farooq138 Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 hey, ok i posted one of these a long time ago gut since then the story has changed. for those who dont know, i am working with this girl who has was dating a guy for 3 yrs. and they broke up, so after that she started to flirt with me and i didnt know what i should do so i just ignored it. so after our staff party i ended up going to her house that night to sleep in her spare bedroom because i lived out of town. i didnt want to be there because i did feel things for her, so i start to to tell her when she tells me that she really likes me and wants me to be her rebound guy, i was floored, so after the intial shock we ended up making out for a few hours while i sobered up, i was about to go home because she told me she thaught if i spent the night she would be cheating on her ex boyfriend, so when i whent to leave she told me to stay and we ended up fooling around, bassics kissing and dry humping but nothing serious, then she blew me and that was it, i tried to go down on her but she told me she would cry so i left it alone. after that she told me a few days later we were just a one night stand and that was it. here is me problem, i dont want that, i want more, i know that its a crush and i know i should just let it go and let her get on but i cant. she is the only person i can talk about stuff with and have fun, i know you guys will think its a crush but i dont care, i think i love her, please help, anyone, preferbly women, you know what i can do to get her, i am tyring what i can right now but any help would be very apreciated, thank you
clatan Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 Well there's plenty of women out there that will blow you if that's what it's about. If you just have to get with her, I wouldn't act like you've got a crush. Act as though you have no interest in her from now on. That sounds like the only way you'll get her interested. Again, either way, it sounds like you're wasting your energy.
BlueEyedSarah Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 She still loves her ex, give her time, be there to be her friend if you must. But she told you she only wants you as a 'rebound' guy and you fell into that trap already. Wanting her to notice you to be something more does not seem like it will happen right now as for one thing she has just got out of a relationship, her head and emotions are mixed up right now which is why its best to give her space. Don't put your life or relationships on hold for her because you and her may never happen to be something more.
clatan Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 Yeah, you're being played as the "rebound guy" it looks like. Hey what the hell? Go with it. Don't get emotionally attached. I could almost guarantee you'll wind up on the losing end though. Just take advantage of the free sex if that's what you want. She's playing you -- play her back. The way most women are, she'll probably fall in love with you then anyway.
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