anna13 Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 I really think there is no confusion here, basically , what is there to be confused about ? he said he loves another woman that is not his wife... so that s it then , his relationship with his wife is over. or should be. if he is not leaving his wife because of his kids does he not have a sexual relationship with his wife ? i doubt that has stopped and is the OW ok with that? I wouldnt be . the relationship with his kids is going to be what it is , kids go through divorse ect and survive , i did ( my parents divorced when i was young) , if you really love your kids that much then give your marriage a real effort , if not move on , and take care of your responsibility ... your kids . your wife will eventually find another life , a man that really loves her and your kids if she wants that in the future. so move on already. if you KNOW you Love the OW ... you know it and you KNOW you dont love your wife , then have a sit down with your wife and let her know what is going on . this isnt even about the affair anymore... what kind of person are you to be lying to your wife just to make your life easier? face reality and deal with it already .
Guest Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 I think you should probably work on your marriage and give the OW up. You decided to have kids with your wife and yet you are thinking of abandoning them. I know from experience, if you leave, your relationship with them will NEVER be the same again. Your relationship with the OW may not last and then where are you? Homeless with kids and family and firends who will mostly despise you. If you want sex pay for a call girl with whom you won't gey emotionally involved You are a father and it is time you grew up and started acting like one. Put their needs above your own.
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