sueidaho Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 A couple weeks ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months, i never told him the reason why until a couple of days. Me being pregnant. I was terrified and didn't know how to tell him. The funny thing is that the day after i broke up i knew i was being stupid so i tried to get him to tlk to me and listen however since the 1 day of the break up he wants nothing to do with me any more. I think he is in shock still but can't talk to me. he tells me he needs time, so i am trying that but it really really bits. He is the type of guy who can't really say how he feels and 5 months before we started dating he gotout of a 4 year non love druggie relationship with one child thrown into the mix with a possibility of another one from the non lover. i know he had strong feelings for me and i know that i crushed him brutily, should i give him the space he craves right know? will he ever speak to me again??? can he understand why i did it.
shockandawed Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Sue, You don't specify but I assume he is the father? If so, you will be having plenty of contact over the next years.
Speedo Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 Yep, give him his space. Infact give him whatever he wants, that includes if he never want's to be with or see you again. Although you may not have meant to, what you did put the ball totally in his court. You'll just have to wait and see. But as the above post says, if it's his child you're sure to be seeing him plenty I would think. But again, not necessarily on the terms you would like. You made your decision, time to let him make his. I don't know him, but he has full rights NOT to understand why you dumped him over that. To be honest it doesn't make sense to me either. Is that the only reason you broke up with him? B/c you're pregnant?
Author sueidaho Posted January 30, 2007 Author Posted January 30, 2007 a little up date. I lied about being pregnant to him. for a week. I know it was wrong when i did it but i did it anyway. i just told him today that i lied to him. he probably never wants to see me again. i don't blame him since i have never lied to him before and always say that i never lie. I figure he will probably never want to be with me again ever. i am finding this hard to accept. but i must. i was working with him but am now quiting so that he doesn't want to deal with me anymore.
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