IsLoveReallyForever Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Here's the story. Me and my ex who will be called herbert started dating about 2 years ago. Everything was perfect...we were perfect. I was totally in love with him and he was totally in love with me. Then one night just after our one year I cheated on him and hooked up with one of his best friends. I couldnt tel him about this so I didnt. I wasnt expecting to hook up with his best friend more then once but it became a normal thing. Every weekend we would go out we ending up sleeping together that night. After about a month we ended it realizing that we were both losing people that we cared about. But by that time it was too late for me and herbert. He wouldnt return my phone calls or texts. I would see him out when I was out and he would pretend like I wasnt even there. I am totally heart broken..finally after about 4 months I finally get a response from him. He just wants to sleep with me, he couldnt see himself with me anymore. so I take this offer. I think its all I can get, and the sex was amazing. so we do this on and off all spring but i am wanting more...I confront him on this he totally freaks out telling me that he doesnt want anything to do with me. That he will never want to be with me again, he also tells me to stop calling/ texting him ( even though he was calling and texting me as well) just not with stuff taling about loving him which I do. he just wanted a sexually realationship with me....so we stop talking...then summer comes and in june I was in a terrible car accident that put me in the hosptial for 5 days. You want to know the first face I see when I wake up...HIS...he didnt say anything to me or even stay long he came over to me held my hand then left. I thought to myself why would he come to the hosptail? I dont talk to him anymore he isnt apart of my life. After I got better I didnt talk to him I was so focused on getting better. Every once and a while I get a text from him or a phone call. what does this mean? why does he countiune to call me and text me?!?! even tho he tells me he is dating another girl after everytime we have sex..then I dont hear from him I start to move on then, there he is again with a text. why cant he just leave me alone why does he have to keep coming back into me life? I feel like if he wouldnt text me every once and a while I could move on but he doesnt...and he is dating another girl. Am I just another piece of ass to him or is he calling me/ texting me b-caz he still cares and doesnt want to let me go just as bad as I dont want to let him go? or am I just completey stupid? why does he have to do this? WHY? losing hiim was like losing my other half...we were perfect for each other and I know that he was the one....how can i get him back when he wants nothing to do with me? how am I supposed to listen to the radio when ever song that comes on the radio reminds me of him? someone give me some advice...I really need it!
curiousnycgirl Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 If he was your other half, and you two were perfect together - then why did you cheat? I'm sorry to be harsh, but what you are saying does not reconcile. Once he said he could never love you again - why did you accept nothing but just sex with him? Despite what you write, you DO deserve more. Personally I think he is maintaining some type of contact just to keep you in the wings, in the off chance his current relationship doesn't work out. Get mad! Stay mad. Don't feel kindly toward him and don't let every song remind you of him. Move on.
LakesideDream Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Just a guess.. He still has feelings for you but knows there is no relationship in the future.
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