Guest Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Me and my boyfriend have been going together for 7mths now. Everything has been perfect.... we have'nt even had an argument yet. We treat each other with lots of respect and have very open communication. I'll try to explain this as best as I can.......... One night about a month ago we were having a great night (laughing and stuff). He said I bet I can make you mad (we have never shown or been mad before)..I laughed and said yeah right..I bet I can make you mad first..So he pinned me down and started saying stuff like..."oh look at the poor girl...so weak...can't get up" etc.. stuff that would make a woman mad;) I would somewhat react in a fun way..like he was getting to me...but then I would laugh. Today we were together and he started up again except he didn't have me pinned down. He also never said we were going to try to make each other mad. He just started doing it for fun while we were sitting at the table. I guess you could call it teasing. This time he said some things I wasn't to happy with...although I didn't show it. He said stuff like.."oh the reason you don't understand (can't remember what we were talking about) is cause the poor girl is too slow" He mentioned another thing about me being crazy in the head. I played back with stuff like I'm just to beautiful and smart for you..blah blah..he said "you are the only one who thinks that" This guy has told me everyday for 7mths that I am beautiful and has never said one bad thing about me so it just felt weird to hear him say those things to me. It made me sad. Anyways it ended up with us being very quiet and him saying he should leave. I stopped him and said maybe we shouldn't play that game anymore..he agreed. Gees just like play fighting these things always get out of control. So what happens tonight...he starts up again..OMG I let him...and I ended up telling him that I feel sad. He says we better not do this. Duh! I tell him about the things he said earlier..and he says he was just playing around joking. I would never want to hurt you... My problem is I never hit below the belt..and believe me I could..but I chose not too cause he can be very sensitive. Why did he say things like being slow..(I have told him my ex called me slow in the past) WTF is this stupid game he wants to play anyways? Am I being to sensitive? I didn't mind the first time we did it cause we laughed so hard..but today felt weird. He has treated me with so much respect everyday since day one..today was a let down for some reason. Should I forget about it..or watch to see if this comes up again?????
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