Guest Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 I have an awkward situation between me and two girls (who are good friends with each other). I have been friends with Girl A since going to college in 2004. In summer 2005 (I worked out later) she basically took me out on a whole-day date, although I didn't realise this at the time(!) I asked her out that Fall and she said no... and I moved on. She left college and moved to another city in 2006 (I have one more year left). I saw her a couple times when I was in the area, but nothing major. Then she came to college to visit a week ago, and stayed on Girl B's floor (Girl B has one year left too). On the Saturday, after the club, Girl A gave me some signals - holding hands, stroking back etc., and I responded. Then on Sunday she ignored my signals, and when I asked her in an email said she realised it wasn't a good idea. That was OK for me as I don't like mixed signals and poor communication. So we hung out on that Sunday and I chatted to Girl A's friends including Girl B. I've known Girl B since 2004 but barely spoken to her. Now I realise I like her - and I'm not sure when/how to ask her out. I'm worried if I tell Girl B too soon it will be weird (she was there when Girl A was holding hands with me). I also want to be able to talk in a really open way to Girl B before asking her, and the best way would be to ask her about Girl A's feelings on that weekend (and so talk about how I felt - and confirm I'm not interested in Girl A). Obviously I'm worried that I could ruin my chances if I act too soon, but I don't want to wait forever! What do you think?
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