confusedMale Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 Hello, this my first time with relationship like this so any advice is appreciated. I just recently move out from my parents house and in to the dorms at my university. One of my first friends I made here(didn't know anyone) was James. He starts dating this amazing girl(Jenny) about a month into the semester. The two of us hit it off straight away. The three of us often went out but it usually ended up with me talking to Jenny. We flirted a lot and she was constantly sitting on my knee(even in front of him), but it was always a joke I assumed. One weekend when James was out of town we were having a party and Jenny was there. We were all pissed drunk and some how Jenny and I made it into my room alone. Then she leaned over and we starting kissing. It went from there and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning we kept telling each other how "terrible" we were but neither one of us ment it. We had sex again later that morning. Then she sorta freeks out that she cheated on her boyfriend and I think it's over. We went clubbing two nights later with a mutual friend while James was still away. Then we starting holding hands again and ened up kissing all the way back from the club in a taxi. A few days later we had a proper date and she says that she'd much rather be with me, but if she broke up with James it could cause a mess since i live with him, he's one of my better friends, and she is studying the same subject =/ She breaks it to me a few days later that the fling is over. I was devestated of course since she at one point said she was gonna dump him soon. Another month or two pass and we're still just friends then we make out again the night before I went on vacation for a week. Then sends me a text saying sorry to get your hopes up but can't promise anything. = ( Sooo confused at this point Now a month later she recently dumped him and they're still gonna try to be friends. This happened about 4 days ago. I hinted to her that I was very interested if she still wanted to go out, but she needed more time. Stragely enough I already got the "ok" from James to date her, which i'm sure she knows about. We have been hanging out tons since and had some really good times but I have been playing the "friend" role. She hasn't made any moves on me, but I haven't made any towards her either. Should I be worried that she doesn't want to go out right away? How long should I wait before I bring up the subject again? Thank you for any feed back
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