AZ03 Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 So my friend and I were hanging out, and he mentioned his girlfriend had an older sister, and that I should meet her. So I did, we went to the movies, had a pretty good time until her and her sister started arguing. Im 20, the girl I was with was 18, and her sister was 17. Yeah yeah, pretty young I know. Well apparently before that she told her sister she was pretty interested in me, and I was pretty interested in her as well. Well I was texting her today, telling her that I would love to take her out sometime without her other sister around so there wouldn't be any distractions, she hasn't said yes for sure it was a "Haha! Well we will just have to see..." semi hard to get method. I don't want to constantly text her and bug her, but I haven't found anyone that I have seen myself this compatable with since my last ex, which is my only ex, and we were together for 3 years. I just want some advice on how to get her back out with me. What I shouldn't do that would drive her away from me. Any suggestions are apprecaited. Thanks!
johan Posted January 29, 2007 Posted January 29, 2007 I don't want to constantly text her and bug her, but I haven't found anyone that I have seen myself this compatable with since my last ex, which is my only ex, and we were together for 3 years. I just want some advice on how to get her back out with me. What I shouldn't do that would drive her away from me. Any suggestions are apprecaited. Thanks! You're thinking wrong. I highlighted the important parts. First of all, you have no idea whether you're compatible with her. Second, you're fixated on her as the solution to your single-tude. Third, you're seriously at risk of driving her away. My advice. You already made your intentions clear. If she's interested, then it's on her to respond. You interpreted what she said as playing hard to get, but don't make any assumptions about that. She could just as easily not be interested. Or for all you know she's dating 2 crack dealers and will go down in a hail of gunfire before you get a chance to see her again. You should just play it cool and look for opportunities to meet other girls like her until one actually makes it clear to you she digs you. I recommend you don't contact her anymore. It's her move. If she doesn't make it, then let it go. Pursuit and persistence are only called for in special circumstances. They won't work most of the time.
Author AZ03 Posted January 29, 2007 Author Posted January 29, 2007 Well, its not the answer to my single-tude, ive been on a few dates since, and I guess im comparing her to the other dates, but we had a pretty good night, better then any of the other dates went, maybe im just getting a little over excited.
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