Armchair Shrink Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 Usually, I am the one who needs space, so this one has me bugged. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months, and she gave me the "I need some space" line, or something to that degree. I really was not that into her, or at least I did not realize it til she stopped returning my calls or texts. Funny how that works. Yes, I will give her space now, the Universe for that matter, but I can't figure out why I feel so down about this. I believe that if she called me back and wanted to work things out, I would want to at first, but then fall back into the routine of complacency that we originally had. I am guilty of wanting what I can't have, but when it was right there, I did not appreciate it. I think I am more offended that she won't call me back than anything else and that I can't get her to engage in a dialoge. I can't stop thinking about this situation and about her. I feel stuck, though I am coming to terms that she is not going to call back anytime soon. I know that ignoring her and moving on is what I need to do, then she will end up calling me back, or I will get over her. Getting from point A to B is what I need advice on. Also, I think she is a serial space needer. Anyone ever had success turning one of these types around for the long term, not just the back and forth game?
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